Cao Zhizi inherited the family business and served as the vice chairman of Fuyao Glass;
Not long ago, when talking about the recent situation of his son Dong Dongdong, Dong Mingzhu said:
The 38-year-old son works in a law firm in Chongqing, rents a house by himself, gets a salary of 5,000 yuan and drives a car of 654.38 million yuan. He is a very ordinary person.
As the rich second generation, some people stand on the shoulders of "giants" and reach the peak of their lives, while others can only stand at the feet of "giants" and look up to the peak.
Many people feel sorry for Dong Mingzhu: he was vigorous and vigorous all his life, making himself a legend. How can he raise a child with such ordinary qualifications?
But I saw the most valuable side of Dong Dongdong.
He is brave enough. His mother is Dong Mingzhu. He is not afraid of gossip and concentrates on being himself.
He is independent enough to reach for millions of start-up funds, but he puts his hands behind his back. He was admitted to the university by his own efforts and entered his favorite industry. Like us, he works hard for his dream every day.
When Dong Mingzhu's brother took the dealer's kickback and wanted to take the back door of Gree, Dong Mingzhu's son had made three agreements with her:
Don't interfere in his life. He doesn't want to live in the shadow of his mother.
Perhaps, compared with a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, people who make money by "sucking blood" are the least successful.
Therefore, even if his son became an "ordinary person", Dong Mingzhu always looked proud when talking about his son.
In this era when everyone is eager to get married, take shortcuts and make quick money, Dong Mingzhu's son lives in a completely opposite way and has his own rhythm.
If the purpose of education is to cultivate a confident and happy child, then Dong Mingzhu has handed in a perfect answer sheet.
Not long ago, she was asked about her expectations of her son in the variety show "We Start Working".
She said, "I hope my son can become a useful person to society. But being useful does not mean reaching a certain level, but doing something beneficial to society. 」
I'm impressed.
Instead of forcing children to be independent, it is better to be a parent who dares to let go;
Instead of forcing children to be excellent, it is better to accept their ordinary.
Some people may say that Dong Mingzhu, as a wealthy entrepreneur, has no reference to her educational methods.
But she is too good to accept such an ordinary child. However, many parents always force their children to become excellent.
I saw a news not long ago:
A mother's goal for her sixth-grade daughter is to be admitted to the top three or five universities in the country.
In order to achieve the goal, the mother asked her daughter to complete the CET-4 and CET-6 papers in her spare time and reach the undergraduate level.
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