1. Maintain communication: establish good communication channels and try to understand the inner feelings and needs of children. Listen to their opinions and ideas and give them opportunities to express themselves.
2. Respect and understanding: Try to treat children with understanding and respect, and don't directly confront or criticize. Try to understand the emotions and confusion they are experiencing from their perspective.
3. Establish rules and boundaries: define family rules and boundaries and have a reasonable discussion with children. Ensure that the rules are fair and clear, and make adjustments as needed.
4. Provide support and guidance: Give children appropriate support and guidance to help them learn effective ways to deal with problems and conflicts. Encourage them to think about the consequences and responsibilities and cultivate their ability to solve problems.
5. Stimulate positive interest: help children discover and cultivate their interests and talents, provide positive activities and opportunities, and let children vent and develop themselves in a healthy way.
6. Establish a support network: Find some trusted friends, relatives or professionals to whom children can talk and ask for support. Sometimes children may be more willing to open their hearts to them.
7. Pay attention to self-care: during the rebellious period of teenagers, children may bring great pressure and challenges to the family. Make sure that you have a good mental state and physical health, so that you can better face and deal with problems.
It is important to be patient when educating children and believe that they can grow and change gradually. If you encounter difficulties or need professional help, consult school counselors or professional counselors in time, and they can provide more specific guidance and support.