After a father hits a child, he must first reflect on how to control his emotions. He shouldn't beat and scold the child because he is too angry. Instead, he should use other methods to educate his children. In general education, there are many ways to punish children, such as sitting or standing.

When the father calms down and reflects, he should say sorry to the child, tell the child that what he did was wrong, and he won't hit the child again in the future. Then tell the child how he felt at that time, and be sure to tell the child why he hit him, so that the child can know where he didn't do well enough, realize what he did wrong, and then talk about his own ideas and handling methods.

How does mom persuade dad to get rid of this problem? As mothers, we should also take some measures. We must never stand aside and be peacemakers. Instead, we should discuss the right or wrong of this matter with our father and children from different angles, and let our father know that it is wrong and should be corrected. At the same time, let children know that parents sometimes get angry and beat and scold for their children's good, so that children can understand their love.

Psychological stress relieves the father of the child. Have you had any psychological stress recently, such as high work pressure, which led to irritability? He also wants to be a good father. Maybe he just needs more considerate care to help him share and relieve the pressure and return to a peaceful mind. You can try exercise relaxation, music relaxation, heart-to-heart decompression and so on with him.

Changing roles to adapt to children's father recently felt that his authority as a parent was challenged, because the child budded in adolescence and was not as obedient as before? This may be a new challenge for him. Let's understand the importance and benefits of children's disobedience in the process of their independent growth. Encourage the father of the child to properly delegate power and let go, so that the child can gain his valuable growth experience from independent thinking and making mistakes.

Being a warm-hearted mother, parents' sincere listening, understanding and encouragement are the best nutrients for children's physical and mental health, and also the safety rope that children need most in restless adolescence. Always pay attention to and talk about children's feelings and thoughts, share his happiness and troubles, give advice without criticism, let children feel the warmth of being understood and the confidence of being respected, and help them have a positive and healthy mental state.

You can also talk to your child about his father hitting you, understand your child's mood and thoughts, and try to understand his love and expression of love for your child.