The difference between Phoenix Man and Mambo Man
1 Phoenix Man is independent.
Because of the influence of his childhood living environment and family education, he demands his independence in his childhood memory, because he can take care of himself, take care of his family and have the ability to work hard. So it is obvious that most Phoenix men are independent. Ma Baonan can't really handle things by himself because of his mother's long-term protection.
Phoenix man is more independent.
Because Phoenix Man cares more about his career, he is very cautious and strict when facing his career. Therefore, for Phoenix man, if he wants to succeed in his career and pursue life, he must have his own unique views and abilities on work, and at the same time be more assertive and creative. So Phoenix Man is more opinionated than Mabao Man.
Which is more terrible, Phoenix Man or Mambo Man?
It's all terrible.
A baby boy is a boy who listens to his mother and has no opinion. Then Phoenix Man is a man who points out that he is poor, studies hard and has a decent job after graduation. It comes from the phrase "golden phoenix flew out of the henhouse", that is to say, he left the poor environment, but his thoughts did not change much.
Bowman also has shortcomings. He listens to his mother and has no backbone at all. If his mother is sensible, your life will be easier. But if his mother is very paranoid, then your life can be imagined. The Phoenix Man we are talking about is just a kind of person. Of course, not all men who have come out of poverty have not changed their minds.
What's the experience of marrying Phoenix Man?
Chatting with friends, I talked about the topic of Phoenix Man, and she told me a story. My sister is in good condition. When she was in college, she was madly pursued by a boy from the countryside. The man obeyed the woman and finally caught up with her. She worked as a teacher in a local university by virtue of family ties, and then went on to study for a doctorate. When they got married, his parents said their son was too good, so they didn't give him money. The car and house are all owned by the woman, and the man's salary is not high, so they are all raised by the woman. I didn't expect the two to quarrel often after marriage. The man felt that he didn't bring his parents here to live, so he was abused by his parents. It wasn't long before he cheated. The woman found out and asked for a divorce, and the man's parents came to make trouble. In the end, he took half of the property, so I'd rather choose Ma Baonan.
Netizen: I work in a hospital in Beijing. The truth is that a little nurse in Beijing was attracted by a Phoenix man. Studying in our hospital or even returning to China is nothing new, as long as there is not much project funds left. Nurses in Beijing and his family raised him for four years. Phoenix man has been a doctor since childhood. He built a house for his parents in the countryside, bought a house for his younger brother in the county, and finally bought a house in Beijing with his father's name on it. He can't stand divorce. The little nurse has only one son and is often harassed. There is nothing she can do. It is unreasonable to leave.
Netizen Bei Gai: My grandfather is a Phoenix man. He was admitted to the Literature Department of Shandong University from a small county town in Shandong, and later joined the municipal party committee. I met my old aunt by chance. It is said that my grandfather didn't agree to this marriage in any case, not because he was too poor to love rich people, but because he felt that many of my old uncle's ideas really didn't deserve my old aunt, and even ran counter to my grandfather's life habits of scholarly family. Sure enough, shortly after marriage, my uncle's poor relatives began to visit frequently, and his career began to flourish, perhaps because he felt that he was the hope of the whole village.
Also began to put on airs at home. When I was a child, I couldn't stand living in a menstruating house. Fortunately or unfortunately, my old uncle later developed uremia. Although he retired early at home and was much more relaxed, he still lost his temper from time to time when he treated my old aunt. Sometimes my mother scolds them when she can't stand it, but my old aunt always says that my old uncle is poor and I am willing to fight for my feelings. Just thinking about it makes me feel sorry for my old aunt and think she deserves better.
Won't you be happy to marry Phoenix Man?
Marrying "Phoenix Man" doesn't mean that you will be unhappy. Life is your own. Only when you manage well can you be happy. If you don't manage well, even if your husband is a high-quality man, you won't be happy.
If you want to run a relationship and a small family by marrying "Phoenix Man", you need both husband and wife to work together, communicate more and trust each other more.
In your marriage life, husband and wife should communicate more. If you have any worries and thoughts, communicate with him in time, clearly tell him how to distinguish the primary and secondary relationship between everyone and your family, communicate more, and guide him to focus more on your family. When your family is well, you will have more energy to take care of everyone!