Recently, I watched Yu and videos about children's education. Both of them study education, and they have many original opinions in this respect, but as can be seen from the video, both teachers attach great importance to family education.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Children's cognitive way of the world, the choice of thinking mode, ideological and moral character, individual personality and the cultivation of three views all play a very important role.
In fact, you can see this through your classmates and colleagues around you. People who are cheerful, generous and informal have a completely different family atmosphere and education style from those who are haggard and depressed.
Teacher Yu mentioned that his father taught him? Is suffering a blessing? I have a little objection to this.
We have heard people say that losing money is a blessing since childhood, but is losing money really a blessing? I don't think so. Of course, from the dialectical thinking of philosophy, it can really reflect the idea of interdependence between blessing and misfortune.
But in real life, in most cases, it is only because we can't make up for the loss that we have suffered that we bring it up to comfort ourselves.
I think it is necessary to tell children that while carrying out the basic virtues of kindness, friendliness, tolerance and generosity, they should also pay attention to their legitimate rights and interests while helping others. Moreover, we must pay attention to the object of tolerance. If the other person is an insatiable villain, your tolerance will become his greedy power, so teach your child to say no.
Teach children to talk? No? I think the current educational concept is lacking. There must be many people who will always accommodate others and wronged themselves for mutual affection and face. This is definitely not the right way to communicate. All communication is based on mutual, which must be told to children.