Counseling experience materials
Dear teachers and parents: Good afternoon! My child, Ji Geng Ann, is in Class Two of Shiqiao Kindergarten. First of all, thank the kindergarten leaders and teachers for their tireless teaching. With the hard cultivation of teachers and good family education, An An has changed from a spoiled "little emperor" at home to a good boy with good living habits, love of learning and good manners. How to cultivate children's good life and study habits, I have the following superficial methods, not to mention the experience. Today, I have the honor to sit with you and discuss: First, encourage and demonstrate more in living habits and be a good example for children. 1) Diet: Children refuse to eat, which is a headache for many parents. My child doesn't like eating since he was a child. When they are hungry, they always have a glass of milk or are fed by adults. Children's growth and development need different kinds of nutrition. I'm thinking about how to get children to eat voluntarily. As a mother, I took great pains. Through my usual observation, I found that Ann and her neighbor's children ate well, and the two children scrambled to eat. So I decided to let him eat at school, and it would be very harmonious to eat with children. Sure enough, with the help of the teacher and the encouragement of the children, Ann ate well, so that the problem of eating in kindergarten was solved and my children and I had confidence. In order to let the children eat at home like in kindergarten, I specially bought the same lunch box as in kindergarten, with his favorite "Teletubby" pattern on it. Just like eating in kindergarten, children can basically eat independently without scattering rice grains. In order to make their meals nutritious and balanced, I specially bought books on children's nutrition and cooking to read, which made my mother often laugh at me for reading to raise children. In treating children's nutritious diet, I pay attention to the collocation of rice and flour, coarse and fine grain, vegetarian food and fruit. 2) Children's self-service: The daily life and study schedule published by kindergarten is the best standard for us to educate our children. Children should have good life rules and habits from an early age. I specially bought a toothbrush, toothpaste, mouthwash cup towel for Ann to use for her children. I brush my teeth with him every morning and evening, and wash my face with a towel printed with the pattern of a small white rabbit, so that children can do what they can and build up their self-confidence. Ann began to take off her clothes and was very dependent on adults. I encouraged him to learn to put on some simple shoes and socks coats by himself, and told him that he would do well, and gradually he could put on simple clothes by himself. 3) In terms of manners, parents should set an example. Parents can be said to be a mirror of their children. We require our children to be polite and civilized at the same time. In order to make An An a good boy, our whole family strictly requires us not to swear words or do uncivilized things, and at the same time teaches him to learn to say polite words such as "thank you", "sorry" and "never mind". If I accidentally lose his handkerchief once, I will tell him at once. In this way, the child can also feel the courtesy from adults, and he also learns from adults. Once a child's grandfather bought him an Altman toy, he knew to say "thank you, Grandpa." Nowadays, children know how to respect teachers, respect their elders and get along well with children. Secondly, in the cultivation of study habits, I should be more patient, pay attention to strategies and methods, be a mentor to children who care about it, subscribe to some illustrated newspapers and books they like to read, and cultivate children's good reading habits from an early age. When An An didn't go to kindergarten, I subscribed to Little Sun Pictorial, which attracted him at once, even though he didn't go to kindergarten at that time. But his love for pictorial is like finding a good partner. Ann likes watching CDs, so I chose his favorite cartoon, such as "Blue Cat Naughty 3,000 Questions". The children learned a lot of little knowledge while entertaining, and also learned to ask us questions. & lt Winnie the Pooh lets children learn basic counting, and gives them a preliminary understanding of justice, good and evil. My children are introverted since childhood and don't like to talk. I want to cultivate children's language ability and exercise children. As early as Ann was two years old, I bought 300 Tang Poems. The language of Tang poetry is concise, with beautiful rhythm and rhythm. I read to him every day and teach him to recite some ancient poems. Over time, An An became interested in ancient poems and was willing to recite some. Reading ancient poems is a compulsory course for my children and me every day. When I first entered the park, Ann was not interested in painting. Every time I see the works of other children on the activity room wall, I am worried. Does my child have no talent for painting? Despite my doubts, I didn't give up. Every day after school, I encourage my children to draw with him, telling him that whatever they draw, they will draw well. Whenever he draws well, I draw a red five-pointed star with a red watercolor pen and stick it on the wall to encourage him. In this way, he tried the fun of painting and became interested in painting. Besides, I bought glue for his children. Let him make some small crafts he wants to make. Although sometimes it is not ideal, children's ability to use their hands and brains is gradually strengthened. I believe that as long as children are educated with heart, children will experience the fun of learning in play. I think educating children is not only a matter for kindergartens and teachers, but also an indispensable part of the whole education. My children still have many shortcomings, such as being naughty, naughty and sometimes even disobedient. But as long as parents and teachers work together, our children will thrive in a good living and learning environment.