What is respect? Care about the behavior of everyone around you, and make him feel that he is very important in everyone's heart. Today, I have compiled for you about learning to respect composition for reference only. Let's have a look.
Learn to respect: 1
In life, each of us is eager to be respected by others, even if it is a trivial little person at the bottom of society.
I remember many years ago, I went to a shopping mall to buy things. When I passed a road, a hat flew in front of me and landed at my feet. This hat looks old and dirty. I saw an old scavenger across the street trembling and trying to cross the street to pick up his hat. I hesitated, but I still picked up the dirty hat and waved it to the opposite side, indicating that I would bring it to him. When crossing the street and handing the hat to the old man, I clearly saw the gratitude in his eyes and heard him say to me again and again, "Thank you, little girl, you live a long life!" " "."Little girl, you live a long life. "This is probably the most sincere gratitude and respect from a garbage collector who lacks vocabulary.
I don't know how much affection the word "respect" hides, but I know from it that a person, a person living in the world of mortals, no matter how high or humble your position is, as long as you respect others, others will definitely repay you with a hundred times of respect. This is the communication between heart and heart. Is this the minimum character a person should have?
The world is big and there are many similar people, but there are no exactly the same people. People from all walks of life have different understandings of respect because of their different experiences, personalities, values, social influences and contacts.
Many times, in our life, study and work, we only care about respecting people who are higher than ourselves, but ignore details and small aspects. As we all know, everything in the world is fluid and will not remain the same. Maybe one day, the street sweeper will become your boss. Maybe one day, your boss will become a street sweeper. ...
A threesome requires a teacher. "A person who truly knows how to respect others will not only respect his superiors and parents, but also respect his subordinates and everyone with a humble position around him, because everyone has his advantages. Isn't it a process of understanding and improving?
Respect for others is not only reflected in words, but also in actions. Respect for others requires sincerity, not hypocrisy. Respect for others requires a sincere heart to infect each other and bring them happiness. So, why not get happiness from yourself?
Let's treat everyone around us with our original pure essence, learn to respect others, and add flexibility and thickness to our lives, so that others will respect you more.
Respect others and respect yourself!
Learn to respect: Chapter 2
Two days ago, my friend and I enjoyed a leisurely weekend in a coffee shop. Through the huge floor-to-ceiling glass, I saw a little boy fiddling with his "possessions". Just two old and dirty bowls, two ping-pong balls made of plasticine, and a square piece of cloth.
He is doing magic. He covered the two bowls upside down. He put two balls under the left bowl and picked up the left bowl for people to see. The bowl is empty. He covered the bowl, then clenched his fist, knocked on the left bowl, and then opened it. The mud ball under the bowl disappeared. He opened the bowl on the right again, and the mud ball appeared under it.
My friend said he was a busker. I nodded and took a sip of coffee, which was a bit bitter.
Perhaps this kind of trick can be said to be commonplace in front of the TV, so there are very few onlookers, only one or two miserable people, with no expression on their faces, let alone applause and cheers.
Look at the little boy carefully. He didn't pretend to be pitiful to gain others' sympathy. The little boy is about eight or nine years old. He frowned and looked dignified, which many of his peers did not have.
After he performed magic, he began to perform handstands, somersaults and so on. The audience seemed more bored and began to leave. He didn't stop there. He continued to perform. After a few seconds, it was not until the last action was completed that he picked up the box containing money and ran in the direction where the people who had just watched left.
I don't know if he wants money, so he came back with the box and repeated his previous performance. Just like the circus in the amusement park, it repeats its performance round after round.
I said to my friend, "In fact, he is also very dedicated."
"Well, he didn't intentionally skip another action in every performance, and I also appreciate him. A child as young as him can't be recruited as a child laborer. He can also sit on the ground and beg from passers-by like other beggars. However, he didn't do it. He traded his talent and sweat for money. Some young beggars just wait for alms from others. He who has hands and feet will not look for a job. Really. " My friend is very angry about it.
I laughed. Pick up the cup and continue to drink coffee. "hmm? Why does it seem to be getting sweeter? Did you help me add sugar cubes? " I looked up and saw my friend looking at the little boy, lost in thought and not hearing what I said.
When my friend and I left the coffee shop, I put some change in his piggy bank. I have no sympathy for her, but I respect his sacred work.
Learn to respect: Chapter 3
In life, people who often know how to respect others will certainly be respected by others, which is a matter of course!
When you throw someone down, you are embarrassed to say "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to" to him. I think he will say "Never mind" when he hears your sincere apology.
When we borrow other people's things, we must get their consent. Otherwise, people will be worried if you take other people's things without permission. Therefore, no matter what we borrow from others, we must get their consent, because this is the minimum respect.
Don't forget to say "thank you" when you drop something, when a pair of strange hands appear in front of you, when you pick up something for you, and when he hands it to you. Three simple words and three effortless words come out of your mouth. When you say this sentence sincerely, you will be very happy in your heart and feel that someone is sincerely helping you.
When we see grandpa, grandma or pregnant women on the bus, will we shout "Grandpa, grandma, aunt, come and sit with me"? Hearing this sentence, they are very happy and will say, "Little sister and brother, thank you". Yes, when you hear this sentence, your heart is full of sweetness, thinking: how happy it is to help others! Yes, starting from small things, starting from the side, respecting others means respecting yourself.
When we are doing things, if there are old people around you, don't forget to let them go first, because we should know how to respect the old and love the young. When you let the old man go, he will definitely say "thank you, little friend". You see, how nice it is that your words and deeds can be respected by so many people!
In life, if you want to be respected by others, you must first learn to respect others and do it: "I am for everyone and everyone is for me." The truth. Remember: respecting others means respecting yourself.
Learn to respect: Chapter 4
I once heard such a story:
A businessman suddenly felt pity when he saw a pencil salesman in rags. Without thinking, he stuffed 10 yuan into the pencil seller's hand and walked away without looking back. After a few steps, he suddenly felt that it was wrong to do so, so he quickly came back to apologize and said that he forgot to take the pen. I hope you don't mind. Finally, he said solemnly, "You are a businessman like me."
A year later, in a warm and grand social occasion where businessmen gathered, a salesman in a suit and tie met the businessman and introduced himself gratefully: "You may have forgotten me long ago, and I don't know your name, but I will never forget you. You made me regain my self-esteem and self-confidence. I always thought I was a beggar selling pencils until you told me yourself that I was a businessman like you. "
I didn't expect such a simple sentence from a businessman to make a person who is not without inferiority suddenly build up his self-esteem and make a person in a difficult situation regain his self-confidence. It is with this self-esteem and self-confidence that he saw his own value and advantages and finally succeeded through hard work. It is not difficult to imagine that if there were no such words of respect and encouragement at the beginning, even giving him several thousand yuan would not help, and there would never be a huge change from self-admission to self-confidence This is respect, this is the power of respect!
Respect is a kind of cultivation, a kind of character, an equal treatment of others, and a full affirmation of others' personality and value. No one is perfect and perfect. We have no reason to look at others with lofty eyes, and we are not qualified to laugh at others with dismissive eyes. If others are inferior to ourselves in some ways, we can't hurt others' self-esteem with arrogance and disrespect; If we are inferior to others in some places, we don't have to replace our due respect with inferiority or jealousy. A person who truly knows how to respect others is bound to face all the strengths and weaknesses in his career and all the fortunes and misfortunes in his life with an equal attitude, a normal heart and a calm mood.
Respect is a spring breeze, a clear spring, an antidote to warmth and a tonic to inspire people to forge ahead. It often complements sincerity, humility, tolerance, appreciation, kindness and friendliness, and is incompatible with hypocrisy, arrogance, harshness, ridicule, malice and snobbery. Give respect to successful people and show admiration, praise and pursuit of others' success; I express sympathy, comfort and encouragement to others after their failure. Only by respecting the present can there be true feelings in the world, hope for the future, continuous progress after success and a comeback after failure.
Respect is not blind worship, nor disgusting flattery; It is not cheap catering without principles, nor is it condescending without inferiority. Knowing the importance of respecting others does not mean learning how to respect others. In this sense, respecting others is also a science. If you learn to respect others, you will learn to respect yourself, and you will also learn and master the main meaning of life.
Let's savor and explore slowly on the road of life!
Learn to respect: Chapter 5
What I personally appreciate most is modesty, respect, sincerity, self-confidence and kindness. And respect is an extremely important contract for me to treat myself and others.
Respect, so to speak, should be the moral quality that everyone should achieve, because only with it, society will have less disputes and struggles and less public opinion.
There are two examples. One is a man who is depressed because the first two trucks won't let him pass the truck while driving, so he is likely to have road rage. He drove so fast that he finally passed two truck drivers. He opened the window, extended a middle finger to the truck driver, gave him a vicious insult, and then drove away. As a result, his car stopped because it ran out of gas halfway, and then it was caught up by the truck driver. Finally, the two men got into a fight, so serious.
On the other hand, a tourist team was late for a bus tour of the scenic spot, and tourists criticized the tour guide. But in fact, this is because tourists bought some food to satisfy their hunger. The tour guide is very respectful. He didn't complain that you misunderstood like them, but asked me to take responsibility. Instead, listen patiently to the scolding, show respect to them, and naturally explain the reasons. The tourists found that they had made a mistake, looked at the tour guide sincerely, and became very respectful to the tour guide. Look, this is the different results of different people's views and practices on the outside world. If we can have more people with this good character, then the world will change because of them, and the world will be peaceful and friendly because of them.
Looking at our school alone, we often see some students disrespect or even abuse or do some very practical jokes, while I personally adhere to the principle and respect everyone, without prejudice or discrimination. I hope some students can stand up with me and say to some bullies who bully the disadvantaged groups: "You can't do this! You are wrong! " Instead of getting into the habit of watching jokes and even joining bullying groups.
This is still a small area, so big that it needs society to minimize unequal treatment. The rich treat the poor cynically, treating them as cheap lazy people, and even some rich people pay the poor to do some performances that are detrimental to their self-esteem. I was really shocked after reading it. The previous society was like this, not the beautiful big family I knew and thought when I was young. But there are all kinds of ugly and evil forces, and of course there is a good side. Someone still needs to respect nature. This is not good for China people. They like smoking, wearing slippers, spitting and doodling in public places. The domestic situation is not well controlled, and even some low-quality influences have gone abroad, which is not only disrespectful to nature and public property, but also detrimental to the face of the country. Would you be surprised if I said I still have to respect animals? Humans naturally look down on animals. They kill them at will, eat them, deliberately abuse them, treat them like dolls, and cause some animals to be endangered.
Having said that, shouldn't we remind everyone around us to learn to respect everything around us from now on, in order to make ourselves happier and the world better!