On the night of May 6, 2009, a video of two children in a middle school laboratory for 4 minutes and 25 seconds appeared on the Internet. As can be seen from the picture, a third party sneaked a picture from the window. At that time, two students were exposed in nobody's laboratory and had an intimate relationship. Adults all know that this kind of thing happens at this age, which is very abnormal, so what causes it?
Let's not talk about the reasons, let's look at the results first. According to the results of the school's handling, two parties have been expelled from the school, and several other candid photographers have been given different punishments by the school.
According to the two documents produced by the school, both parties were dismissed by the school because of their outrageous behavior, which had a serious impact on the school. Another document said that the photographer of the video shot other people's videos without authorization and spread them on the Internet, which had a very bad influence on the school. According to the different situations of these people, different punishments were given respectively.
Faced with such a result given by the school, many netizens feel that this kind of treatment is really unacceptable.
There are all kinds of objections on the Internet, mainly in the following three aspects:
1, the teacher is seriously dereliction of duty.
2. Photographers seriously invade privacy.
3, the punishment of the parties is too heavy.
So why is this happening? See what netizens say.
Netizen half a point
Are all abnormal practices. In fact, the fundamental solution lies in how to educate dog lovers. In fact, I don't object to high school students falling in love with people above high school, but there should be a standard of behavior and what not to do should be clear. And it's not enough that puppy love affects learning! In ancient times, people of this age in high school became parents. In fact, people will have love for the opposite sex at this stage. This is a normal human law. Why use these abnormal means to suppress it?
Netizen dandan
I think both the family and the school are responsible. After all, students spend most of their time at school, and family education is also very important. Usually parents should make boys aware of the importance of responsibility, and for girls, they should teach them how to protect themselves, because they are all 18 years old. Let them know what they need to know, know and understand.
Schools should pay attention to students' behavior at ordinary times, and enlighten and communicate in time if there is any abnormality, instead of scolding them blindly. I think no matter what school age, schools should have psychology classes and counseling rooms, or every teacher should have some psychological knowledge.
Netizen Wang Tao
Family education is not in place. I think puppy love is not impossible, but you should let your children know that there are many things at their age that they can't bear the consequences. Even adults have to consider many consequences when they fall in love. Therefore, even if you are in love, you need to carefully grasp the degree of development. Only limited love will develop in a better direction.
Netizen chaser
Can students fall in love with teachers and schools? Don't you tell the teacher and the school about falling in love? Don't you understand that it's all the fault of teachers and schools, all of whom went to school? Why not say that parents didn't educate their children well?
In fact, Bian Xiao believes that puppy love, for schools and parents, is afraid of affecting their grades. In my opinion, puppy love is nothing, but we should pay attention to the degree and maturity of mind to balance the relationship between love and study. If we fall in love at 18 years old or below, we will be called puppy love. If you go up at the age of 26, you will be urged to get married. At the age of 30, we will be treated as leftover women.
Modern people get married and fall in love is a form and framework, which stipulates when you want to fall in love and when you want to get married, but fate is really uncertain. Some people fall in love early and find their own hearts in this life. Some people do end up early, and they may find the right person in their thirties, so I don't think it's necessary to take it too seriously, but we must pay attention and protect ourselves.
Netease/Shi said with emotion.