1. First of all, give your child some personal space, let him learn to think, enhance the feelings between you and your child, and make your child feel closer and trust you more. Talk to children more.
2. Talk to children equally. You can't communicate with children in a reprimanding or commanding tone as you did when you were a child. Adolescent children are easy to rebel, talk back, find fault and walk into a dead end. Therefore, parents should understand that they should talk to their children equally in a way acceptable to them, and communicate as friends most, so as to gain their full trust.
3. Let go appropriately. Junior high school children's sense of independence is enhanced, their attachment to their parents is weakened, and their dependence on their friends is enhanced. I don't like my parents to interfere in their own affairs too much. At this time, as parents, we should learn to let go appropriately and give our children some autonomy.
4. Cultivate boys' sense of responsibility and responsibility! When I was in charge of the class, when dealing with the problem of children fighting, the most common thing I encountered was that children never said where they were wrong. When they came up, they said he hit me, and he scolded me, but they didn't say anything! We can't admit our mistakes when we encounter small things. How can we assume the responsibility of the family and the future of the motherland?
5. Pay attention to children's friends. Birds of a feather flock together, so always pay attention to what kind of people children like to associate with and whether they are infected with bad social habits, such as smoking, drinking, puppy love, dyeing their hair and so on. If children are found to be careless in making friends, or have a tendency of puppy love, parents should intervene as soon as possible, communicate with teachers in time, and get help from teachers. Guide children correctly and pay attention to their dynamics at any time. But you can't use radical methods to stop children from going to extremes.
6. Father should spend more time with him and become a role model for children. Fathers play a very important role in children's growth, because many children regard their fathers as their role models and like to imitate them. However, if they find that their father's thinking is different from their own, even without his father's company, the children will gradually rebel, and the father will become a good example and spend more time with the children before they grow up.