1, aquarium rule: the growth of fish needs more space, and the growth of mind needs freedom. We often help children make choices, choose schools, choose clothes, choose toys and so on. So children have no choice, no thinking, no innovative thinking, no imagination, and there won't be too many attempts. Therefore, whether parents need to let go moderately and let their children have more room for growth is worthy of our consideration.
2. Rosenthal effect: The positive expectation for children is actually an external support. When children encounter setbacks, family and friends are the core of this support force, which is also more shaping and can give children enough strength to face challenges. On the contrary, without this positive expectation and support, children may become negative or even collapse.
3. The Law of Dreams: Help children to establish their dreams from an early age. When a child tells his dream, it may seem ridiculous or unrealistic to his parents, but as parents, it is more to encourage and support them to lead their children to explore on the road of dreams than to break the wings of their children's dreams and create a richer world.
4. Respect the law: respect the child, treat the child as an independent person, respect the child's privacy, respect the child's choice and respect the child's friends. While respecting their children, parents know how to respect themselves and the status quo. Only when three conditions exist at the same time can we truly respect and make our communication with our children more harmonious and smooth.