A child who has no rules is difficult to adapt as soon as he goes to primary school.

Because you can't abide by the rules and regulations of the school, you will be criticized by the teacher. Small impact on performance, big impact on self-esteem.

Society has social rules. It is difficult for unruly children to adapt to society when they grow up. Even beaten by society.

Parents should be gentle, and gentleness will not bring psychological trauma to children, nor will it affect their self-esteem.

Parents should be firm. Only by being firm, can they set good rules for their children, let them understand the principles and keep the border.

Parents must seize the best opportunity. The older the child, the worse the effect. /kloc-it is basically difficult to make rules after 0/2 years old.

For example, if the child is about 3 years old, she can be asked to put away her toys.

Mom can say: put away your toys after today, ok?

The child will definitely say: Yes, no problem.

Mom: Keep your word.

Child: No problem.

At this time, mom can say, if you don't cook, you can't eat meat at noon, okay?

The child will say: Yes.

The details that need to be paid attention to in this process are:

1. The result of punishment can be executed. Mom, stop. I won't eat at noon.

Because we can't get by without food, it's difficult to implement it. Just don't give the child what she likes to eat.

3. At the beginning, you can remind your child that dinner will start in five minutes, so pack up your toys and get ready for dinner.

If the child doesn't do it, don't judge, don't blame, and don't say anything that hurts her self-esteem.

Then take her favorite dish away from her. Needless to say, the rest. It's not good to say it.

If the child does it, praise her and encourage her. You can say it over and over again. See the neighbors downstairs and tell them in front of the children that dad will tell them when he gets home.