What I brought this time is about leather. It's really dumbfounding after reading it.
The boy's mother just finished washing clothes and put them on the balcony. She went out to run an errand and returned to the balcony to find her clothes missing. Then she suddenly found her sneaky son in the bathroom. ...
Mother looked closer and found her son standing in front of the toilet, which was the clothes she had just washed! Really shocked! Quickly suppress the impulse to hit the child!
After I saw the child put the clothes in the toilet, I slowly covered the toilet lid and thought that the toilet was a washing machine. Can I wash clothes again?
After seeing the toilet lid, the boy turned to do other things as if nothing had happened. And the mother who is secretly observing has already seen through all this.
Do you feel exhausted when you see such leather? Children who really want to scratch their skin can't.
How to educate naughty children in daily life?
1. Tell children clearly what it means to "make a wise choice" or "make a responsible decision". For example, in the video, Xiong Haizi did something wrong. You can't tell your child how angry your mother is and how annoying you are. Instead, children should be told the consequences of doing something wrong. Mother's clothes should be washed for nothing, and clothes at home should be wasted and bought again ... so that children can realize that they have done something wrong.
2. Give the child a pause to think about the steps of weighing, and let him understand the relationship between choice and consequences. Cultivating children's self-control ability is not to do what they want to do, but to do what they should do.
3. If the child doesn't make a wise choice, don't preach and blame, just express regret-"Next time, you will know how to make a wise decision". When you show sympathy, the child will regret having made a stupid decision; But once you start preaching and blaming, children will turn their attention to you and be busy resenting your nagging instead of reflecting on themselves.
It's no use cursing generally. Finally, let children learn to reflect on their mistakes. Parents must remember this!