As a parent, do you know what are the most "taboo" problems in family education? Don't look down on children; Some parents are impatient and will say to their children, "You are so stupid!" "or" are you a puppet man? "This kind of look down on children, just say it will damage children's self-esteem and weaken their consciousness.

Don't scare the children; Teaching children by scaring them will also weaken their own consciousness. If parents say, "Next time you do this, you will look good!" In other words: "If you kiss your sister again, I'll give you a good beating." After listening to those words, children will become more and more uneasy, causing a psychological fear to their parents.

Do not need too much maintenance and supervision of children; Too much maintenance and supervision of children will hurt their own consciousness and weaken their ability to work independently. When parents supervise their children too much, it is equivalent to telling them, "You don't take good care of yourself." Most parents lack confidence in their children's working ability. Everyone should take "let children do meaningful things, not do everything instead of them" as the motto of life, thus gradually shaping children's self-care ability.

Don't nag children; The rambling way is mainly manifested in the repetition of platitudes of equipment. When children hear that there are thick cocoons in their ears, their body and mind are also damaged, which makes them very uneasy and unable to enter the normal learning state. Too much nagging from parents will make children feel tired of learning, depressed and resistant, silent, or simply compete with parents, which will make children angry.

Children cannot be taught inconsistent rules; Some parents make rules at will according to their emotions, sometimes the same personal behavior will be punished, and sometimes they will go with their children. It will make children feel cheated. The child wants you to teach him a set of consistent, reliable and reliable rules. Children's cultural education has a long way to go. "The whole process of parenting education is also a process of self-adjustment."