There is no absolute freedom in this world, and every child needs to grow up to be a social citizen. As social people, we need to abide by social rules. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's awareness of rules step by step from an early age. Especially 0-6 years old, in a sensitive period of order. If parents can provide their children with an orderly living environment at this stage, they will make the sense of order and rules established by children at this stage become habits in the process of growing up. Therefore, we need to establish a regular life order for our children. When children have foresight about the rules of life, once habits are formed, children will not think that establishing rules is a kind of prohibition.

In the process of establishing rules, parents need to think about two points: the first is whether we follow the law of children's development in the process of establishing rules for children. The second is whether the children's physical and mental characteristics are respected in the process of implementing the detailed rules. If these two points are not done, it is likely to cause children's resistance. So we need to avoid entering a misunderstanding, that is, the arbitrariness of establishing rules. If the rules are only for your own convenience, it is difficult to establish, and even if they are established, it is difficult to implement, let alone children's habits, let alone children's habits. Parents need to realize that establishing rules does not mean unilaterally "stopping, prohibiting and refusing", because it will make children feel that they are not valued and respected. Even I have no right to put forward ideas and express real needs. So, how to negotiate with children? Therefore, when making rules in the family, we need to think carefully, grasp the direction and scale, and let the children be guided step by step in the rules. A child who grows up in a family environment full of love and order must have his unique views on love and rules.