Family education
Children's lack of gratitude is often a problem of family education. Parents in China tend to focus on their children and pay too much for them. They are used to arranging their children's trifles, but forget that children have the right to learn to love and pay.
Correct expression of love
Your love is too strong, but you missed the opportunity to let your children learn to be grateful. The more parents pay, the easier it is to encourage children to feel unworthy, and often they can't raise grateful children.
Correct view of money
Parents have given everything, but they have bred their children's sense of superiority. Children are used to their parents' efforts, but they don't know how to be grateful and enjoy their parents' efforts with peace of mind.
Correct view of learning
Many parents tell their children, "You just study hard and we'll do the rest." After a long time, children feel that their parents should pay, but they don't feel the difficulty of the adult world.