Speaking of emancipating the mind, I'm afraid those talented women and beautiful women in the Republic of China were not as profound as Ding Ling. She once said: At that time, marriage was not strict, and there was not much difference between cohabitation and marriage. What is ideological emancipation? At that time, who was good with whom, just moved in together, not so troublesome now.
Don't think she's just saying it. She did.
At the age of 20, Ding Ling went to Beijing to study, but she was not admitted after applying for the Academy of Fine Arts. She wrote everywhere for help, but no one ever gave her a helping hand. Ding Ling, who has no place in Beijing, can only return to her hometown in Hunan.
At this time, Hu Yapin, a classmate who was crazy about her, followed her all the way to Hunan, which made Ding Ling very moved by her academic frustration. However, Ding Ling was unprepared for love at this time, but when they returned to Beijing from Hunan together, the students regarded them as lovers and thought that they had lived together. Ding Ling is very stubborn. Because they all have ears, she simply put it on the table. In this way, she agreed to Hu Yapin's pursuit, and the two officially became lovers.
Ding Ling and Hu Yepin are married and live together, and their feelings are harmonious. At this time, Ding Ling wanted to learn Japanese, so she found a student from Peking University as a teacher, and this teacher was Feng Xuefeng. Feng Xuefeng and Ding Ling did not fall in love at first sight, but in their long-term contacts, they gradually developed feelings. This feeling is the strongest, and at that time, Ding Ling felt the most tormented. On the one hand, it is the first boyfriend, on the other hand, it is true love. How should I choose?
Ding Ling gave full play to the boldness and fashion of the literati in the Republic of China. She suggested that three people live together. Incredibly, the other two people agreed. They really live together by the West Lake in Hangzhou, and we don't know the details. But what happened later made me understand that such love won't work.
However, no matter what he thinks, in real life, Hu Yepin can't pass his own test after all. A few days later, he took the initiative to run back to Shanghai and asked his friend Shen Congwen about the husband and wife. Shen Congwen told him that Hu Yepin returned to Hangzhou the next day, and Feng Xuefeng decided to leave at this time, and the final choice was placed on Ding Ling. Ding Ling finally chose to return to Hu Yepin's side, and this absurd three-person relationship ended.
1930 1 1 month, their son was born. Only two months later, Hu Yepin was arrested and killed by the authorities. In the last letter left to Ding Ling, he affectionately called her "young mother" and signed it "young father".
After Hu Yepin's sacrifice, Ding Ling met Feng Da, and she was really moved by his meticulous warmth. They stayed together for three years. Ding Ling was arrested for Feng Da and even gave birth to a baby girl in prison. Then, they never contacted each other again.
When Ding Ling was 33 years old, she met Chen Ming, a handsome anti-college student. He is only 20 years old. They are attracted to each other, but they dare not fall in love boldly because of the gossip from outside. Chen Ming can't stand the irony and ridicule of others. He married another lady and divorced again. Ding Ling said nobly, let them talk for a few years, how can they talk for decades?
1942, 38-year-old Ding Ling married 25-year-old Chen Ming, without inviting guests or drinking. Holding hands, they walked in the streets of Yan 'an and announced to the world that they were married. 1955, Ding Ling was criticized and immediately exiled to the Great Northern Wilderness for 8 years. Later, he was put into Qincheng prison in Beijing. Five years after he was released from prison, he was sent to Zhangtou Village, Laodingshan, Changzhi, Shanxi. Chen Ming stayed with her until she recovered in 1979 and died at the age of 82.