Children don't do homework, don't sleep, just want to watch TV. Faced with this situation, parents really have a headache. The child is disobedient and can't beat him. The post-90s couple came up with such a way to "physically punish" their children. Don't you like watching TV? Then let you see enough at a time, completely satisfy you. Don't sleep tonight, just watch it all night. In fact, this kind of punishment has no educational significance for children. Instead, let the children stay up late and have no spirit to go to class the next day. In fact, the purpose of doing this is to let children really remember this lesson. Does it really work? Short-term is bound to be effective, very effective, but after all, children are children for a period of time, and future children will be the same as before. This kind of education actually belongs to punitive education. At present, corporal punishment of students is not advocated. Of course, the teacher mentioned here. However, in the process of education, no matter what role it plays, corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguised form cannot be adopted in the education of children. Therefore, according to the definition of corporal punishment, it is not only physical punishment, but also psychological punishment. This way of "letting you see enough at once" has actually caused a great psychological blow to children. If a lot of things are done this way, then
There are actually many positive educational methods for children's education:
First of all, parents should not set a negative example for their children.
Parents are the first teachers in children's life, and children in childhood have a strong imitation ability, which is easily influenced by family environment and parents' education methods. In order to reduce children's attacks on others, parents must change the way of education and resolutely put an end to corporal punishment of children. Second, communicate with children more.
While parents are busy with their work, they must also take as much time as possible to get to know their children, communicate with them, and try to fully grasp their performance at school and at home. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, parents can understand how to guide the child instead of beating and scolding the child to solve the problem. No matter how young children are, parents should treat them equally. Some rude parents are always used to beating and cursing their children, which can easily make children feel disgusted with their parents. In this way, children will not be understood by their parents, and the gap between them will become deeper and deeper. Therefore, parents should communicate with their children more and let them know that their parents understand him. In this way, children can also feel the love and care of their parents, thus actively correcting their mistakes.
Third, be more reasonable with your children.
When children are disobedient or willful, parents should not only communicate with their children in daily life, but also pay attention to their own educational methods. Parents should reason with their children more, and they can educate sensible children without beating and cursing. Parents should be more reasonable with their children in real life, let them have empathy, and let them learn to put themselves in their own shoes and realize their own shortcomings. Facts have proved that children are more likely to accept their parents' opinions spontaneously and the educational effect is more ideal.
Parents should participate in the growth of their children. For example, parents can take time to play with their children on Saturday, so that children will not be obsessed with watching TV. They can increase some children's hobbies and make them interested in doing other things instead of indulging in watching TV. Parents should be patient, communicate with their children more, let them accept their parents' ideas and let them change.