Thinking is the wing of children's growth, but it is shelved by over-arranged parents. In China's family, parents are used to doing all the trivial things for their children. This kind of "all-round care" love is actually a kind of bondage. This paper will discuss the influence of exam-oriented education and technology on children's thinking ability, and help parents better guide their children to grow up in thinking.

Let go appropriately

Parents, please let go appropriately, let children grow up in thinking, let children learn to think independently and learn to face problems.

Limitations of exam-oriented education

Examination-oriented education does have its limitations, but we cannot deny that it also cultivates children's self-discipline and mastery of basic knowledge. Real thinking ability can be cultivated not only through education, but also through family guidance and social practice.

Advantages and disadvantages of science and technology

Modern technology does bring convenience to our life, but it also makes us gradually lose the ability to solve problems by hand. Children are addicted to video games and perfect animation, and their imagination is limited to the screen. However, technology itself is not the problem. The key lies in how to guide children to use technology correctly, so that they can enjoy the convenience brought by technology while maintaining the habit of thinking.