1, let the children do it first. Many parents like to be superior and give orders when educating their children. This kind of education is extremely disgusting! As a parent, think about it before asking for children. Have you ever done it yourself? For example, tell children to read more extracurricular books, then play less mobile phones, watch less TV and read more. This way, children will like reading when they come into contact with it!

2. Trust children and learn to discuss. Parents should discuss with their children when dealing with daily family affairs, no matter big or small. Because you should know that children are still young, but their views on some issues are objective and true! For example, children have their own views on the layout of children's bookstores. Where is the bed for sleeping? Where is the desk for homework? What's on the wall? We must discuss it with our children. I believe that children will make wise choices!

3. Respect children and learn to listen. Parents should never put on airs with their children. They should kneel down and talk to children as equals. We should learn to listen to children's innocent words, because they are all from the heart. Only when parents listen clearly and understand can they understand their children's inner world and resonate with their children's hearts, and their children will regard you as intimate friends. At this time, the child may "listen to you."

4. Don't criticize children in public. When outside, the child has some disobedient behaviors. Parents should not criticize in person, which will make their children feel inferior. Talk to your child in private so that you can deal with the problem better.

5. Educate children and parents should agree. A "beating" and a "protecting" will make it difficult for children to know which behaviors and demands of their own are unreasonable and incorrect, and think that all their wishes should be met, thus laying the foundation for the formation of his wayward habits.

6. Cultivate interests and develop hobbies. Every child has something he likes to do. Parents should be good at discovering their children's hobbies and cultivate them purposefully. For example, if children like playing football, parents can buy their children some books or videos introducing football knowledge, let them learn by themselves and provide timely counseling. Usually parents have free time, and they can also play football with their children, so that their hobbies can develop with their children's learning!

Three reasons why boys are disobedient:

1, the child is in a rebellious period of youth. Every child has to go through a rebellious period of youth, which is a psychological phenomenon caused by physical development. Many times, children don't know how to communicate with them. After all, times are different, and communication is not in one channel, which makes children unwilling to communicate with their parents.

Parents' education is too strict for children to open their hearts. Not all children don't talk to their parents, but most parents in China expect too much from their children and put too much pressure on them. They seldom consider their children's feelings when applying for this class or that class. For children, playing is their nature.

3. The communication between parents and children is inappropriate. Most children in this period are immature psychologically, have not experienced many problems, do not know right or wrong, and do not know how to face them. For example, puppy love, if you can treat your children as friends, they can also treat their parents as brothers and sisters. We will even teach them how to treat love and how to chase girls from our experience, and tell him that as long as he has a good career, he can give each other more happiness and have responsibility and responsibility. So they can also fall in love with their parents.