My father in his eighties is a retired teacher. In his memory, his education for our three children runs through the elements of Confucianism. When I was a child, I kowtowed to the old man every New Year, and then I could receive the lucky money from the old man. At that time, I was disgusted with this, but out of courtesy, I could only force my family not to be disappointed during the Spring Festival. Later, when we grew up, my father no longer asked us to make this "gift", but asked "Happy New Year!" Yes, it really makes me happy. Now that I think about it, the use of "Li" is precious, and it still makes sense. What is appropriate and just right is worth inheriting with sincerity and action. This is also very meaningful for us modern people. The Chinese nation is a country of etiquette, and we should pass on the beautiful etiquette. For example:
"Ceremony is more frugal than luxury. Not easy, peaceful. " We should live a frugal life, not too extravagant.
"The gentleman does not dispute, fight also! Give up and drink. Its struggle is also a gentleman. " In our daily work and life, we often encounter some competitive affairs or activities. Actively participate, but pay attention to etiquette and strive for gentlemanly demeanor.
"Tao is moral, qi is courtesy, and shame is quality." When dealing with people, we should put morality first and pay attention to restraining ourselves with etiquette.
"The monarch is a courtier, and I regard you as loyal." Be polite to subordinates and be loyal to leaders.
"Qiu is glad. If you have, people will know. "Learn from Confucius and don't say" no "to the leader in front of everyone. This is respect for the leader, and you should also abide by this etiquette when treating any ordinary person.
"Luxury is not grandson, frugality is solid. It is better to be practical than to be a grandson. " If you live well, you can't be extravagant. Thrift is not only a manifestation of courtesy, but also a virtue.
"A gentleman is loyal to his relatives, and the people are benevolent; If you don't lose your old age, then the people won't steal. " Always care for and care for your loved ones and be kind to others; Don't forget your friends and keep in touch often. This is the persistence and inheritance of the ceremony.
"Xing, Cheng Yule." Learning and accumulating poems will make people excited. To be a polite and observant person can gain a better foothold in society and then try to be just right.
? How to innovate and develop these gifts of the Chinese nation in inheritance? I think these "rites" mentioned above should be applied to practice, combined with various ceremonies and activities, and integrated with modern elements, so that the culture of rites can better nourish our lives in the inheritance.