Strict father's loving mother is a traditional family education model in China. Whether this model can successfully help children's education mainly depends on the degree of strictness and kindness. Father is a man, a masculine and dignified family role image; Mother is a woman, a gentle and euphemistic family role image. These two factors are extreme, and together with strict father's loving mother, they are likely to have a negative effect on children's education. Therefore, proper communication with children has become one of the weights, which can play a role in maintaining balance. Everyone's growth process will go through many periods. In some special periods, such as adolescence, if parents just spur them on, but don't get to know their children in a roundabout way, it is likely to push them to the wrong life path.