Establish a relationship of trust
Establish a good trust relationship with your child, so that your child can feel your care and support. In this way, children will be more willing to listen to your advice and guidance.
Set clear expectations
Set clear and specific goals and expectations for children, and let them know what they should do and how to do their best.
Instill a sense of responsibility
Teach children to take responsibility and make them realize that their actions will have an impact on others. You can start with small things, such as undertaking housework and taking care of your siblings.
Encourage autonomous learning
Cultivate children's autonomous learning ability and let them learn to solve problems independently. Children can be guided to find their own answers instead of giving them directly.
Cultivate interest and enthusiasm
Encourage children to explore their interests and enthusiasm, and let them invest time and energy in their favorite fields. This can improve their initiative and enthusiasm.
Praise and encouragement
When children show conscious and positive behavior, they should be praised and affirmed in time to stimulate their motivation to continue their efforts.
Good example
As parents or teachers, we should set an example and show conscious and positive behavior. Children will learn how to be a self-motivated person from your behavior.
Cultivate good habits
Help children develop good study and living habits, such as regular work and rest, self-discipline, etc. Good habits help children form active qualities.
Provide support and guidance
When children face difficulties, give them appropriate support and guidance to help them overcome difficulties and enhance their self-confidence. In this way, they will be more motivated to take the initiative to solve problems.
Be patient and persistent.
It takes time and patience to cultivate a self-motivated child. As parents or teachers, we should guide our children patiently and persistently, believing that they can gradually grow into self-motivated people.