First, don't beat and scold her.

When the child is in adolescence and is officially rebellious, if parents blindly criticize and abuse, the child will have a serious rebellious mentality. She doesn't know what harm puppy love will do. All she knows is that she likes to play with that boy. Her parents' beating and scolding will only make her feel that her parents don't love her and that her parents are too exaggerated. She will think that boy is better and follow her. At this time, the parents' beating and cursing will be counterproductive, bringing her closer to the boy. Therefore, when parents know that their daughter is in puppy love, they should calm down and relax and communicate with their children.

Second, tell your daughter that it is normal to like boys.

Parents are worried about girls' puppy love, but don't exaggerate, so that children feel that things are serious, that they have done something very wrong, and they dare not say anything. Parents dare not speak when communicating with her. Parents should tell their daughters that girls will have a good impression on boys at this time, and you feel very happy with him. This is the normal physiological reaction of every girl, not just you. At this time, girls will put aside their shyness, accept their parents' communication, have a good talk with their parents and accept their suggestions.

Third, classmates and friends should be friendly.

After the child accepts your association, you should tell the child that you will not only have a good impression on this boy in the future, because you are still young and meet too few people or things, so you should not be alone with this boy. As your friend or classmate, you should have contact with him, learn from each other and urge each other, not just him. You should get along with other friends or classmates in this way. They are all the same, you. These words are to let the child know that you like others more because you spend too much on that person alone, so that she can contact other people.

Fourth, tell her the influence of puppy love on the future.

Tell your child that puppy love has a great influence on her. Tell the child that she is still a student and still young. Puppy love will occupy the study time, affect the study attitude, and even directly affect the road she wants to choose in the future. Let her have a sense of crisis and let her know the bad influence of puppy love. At this time, she will have scruples and seek our help. We can take this opportunity to teach her to give up puppy love and study hard

5. Ask her what her ideal is.

Although they are still children, most children at this stage have their own ideals. When they grow up, they all have a general outline of what they want to do. We have to tell her that it is not difficult to realize the ideal. As long as we do what we should do at each stage, then the last moment is to realize the ideal, let the children walk step by step, and tell them that puppy love is like a stone on the steps, blocking our steps. It may make it impossible for us to cross the past, so we miss the ideal, but if this stone finally appears, then we can rest on it, so it is appropriate to talk about love after finishing our goal. We should also give children some examples of stories about other people who ended badly because of puppy love, so that children can understand that there is no need to fall in love before they finish their studies or achieve their ideals.

What are the manifestations of the puppy love of the daughter of senior one?

First, I am absent-minded when I go home or do my homework on weekends. I've been looking at my cell phone or looking for a reason to go out.

Secondly, I like to dress myself up, look around in the mirror and often ask my parents to buy me some fashionable clothes.

Third, the mood fluctuates greatly, sometimes excited, sometimes melancholy, and sometimes agitated; There are often calls from the opposite sex at home, and there are often some small gifts of unknown origin; Pay special attention to the love scenes in movies and TV.

Fourth, if you don't come home on time after school, your academic performance will also drop. When I ask the reason, I always prevaricate and avoid the topic.

5. Lively and active children become silent. After returning home, I like to hide in my room alone and become strangers with my family for no reason.

6. Tell some lies that parents can see through at a glance.

Seven, homework and exam results fluctuate greatly, and academic performance declines.