Tisch
Hello parents and teachers!
Before I begin my speech, I want you to know that family is the first place for children to receive education, and we are the first teachers for children as parents. Therefore, family education is extremely important for children's growth and even affects their life.
In my opinion, to educate children, we must first establish good interpersonal relationships with them and let them know that they are obedient children. Secondly, we should let go and discipline appropriately. Give him some freedom, some time and space for activities. Again, teach patiently. We can make our children understand some "opinions" by reasoning, overcome their own problems and gradually succeed. At the same time, encourage children to actively participate in various recreational sports and social activities to promote their physical and mental health and improve their creativity and imagination.
Let the child do some housework at home, such as washing his own clothes, to make him realize that he is a member of the family.
Carrying out parent-child reading activities in schools can enhance the emotional communication between parents and children, keep abreast of children's psychological activities, effectively cultivate children's attention and improve their listening and language understanding. Help children establish lofty ideals and cultivate excellent quality.
As a child, everyone wants to be the best, but it is impossible to be the first every time. I often say to my daughter, "it doesn't matter whether you succeed or not, as long as you try your best to do one thing well." I only ask my daughter to do everything in a down-to-earth manner. I don't care about the result, but I must pay attention to the process. When the child fails the exam, help her analyze the reasons and find the gap, and don't make similar mistakes in future exam homework. This is my purpose!
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Dear teachers and parents,
Hello everyone! Today, thanks to Mr. Zheng's entrustment, I would like to share with parents and friends about children's learning and behavior education.
I think that before children's nature is polluted, there must be spiritual cultivation and moral education. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, once said, "Thousands of teachers in Qian Qian teach people to seek truth, while thousands of students in Qian Qian learn to be human". I have always held the view that learning to be a man is the first important thing, and then acquiring knowledge and skills. If you don't respect others, you don't respect yourself first. To teach children to respect others, everyone likes respect, and respect is the premise of interacting with others. Educate children to respect everyone in society, even beggars should respect their personal dignity. At school, they should respect teachers, love their classmates and live in harmony with them. Even if it is aimed at our classmates, we should care about them and let them remember that being kind to others means being kind to ourselves.
When parents educate him, he should listen respectfully; When his parents blame him, let him accept it with conviction; Don't talk back to your parents, even if what your parents say is not completely correct, correct it if you have it, encourage it if you don't, and find the right time to communicate with your parents; Tell your parents every time you go out and come back to reassure them. From an early age, we should cultivate him to speak with a pleasant countenance and a soft tone, so that people who hear him have a cordial feeling; Teach him to be modest in front of his elders, don't speak loudly, and resolutely get rid of harsh and obscene words. Let the child become a broad-minded child from an early age, not haggle over right and wrong for one sentence or one sentence, but have a tolerant heart.
In daily life, let children try to take some responsibilities for themselves, such as: asking children to be responsible for their own health, not picky about food, and developing good hygiene habits; Ask children to be responsible for their own learning, complete their homework carefully and check their homework by themselves; Let children do some housework within their power; Wash clothes, wash dishes, brush chopsticks and take out the garbage. When the child is at school, parents should teach him to be a duty student and a class cadre. He should do his duty, and he should not cheat or play tricks when cleaning. When you see the good things done by others, you should think that you should work hard, repay others' kindness with gratitude, educate others not to be selfish, cultivate the habit of returning what you borrowed from others in time, and don't hide and damage it.
In learning, we should listen to the teacher carefully, don't look around, do three things: heart, eyes and mouth, learn deeply, and improve learning efficiency. When studying, the desk should be neat, the sitting posture should be correct, the used books should be put in a fixed place, previewed before class and reviewed after class.
Of course, most parents are very concerned about their children's grades. I am also a parent, and I can fully understand the feelings of parents who want their children to succeed. However, education has its regularity, and there are many factors that affect scores, which are the result of children's learning foundation, learning methods, personal efforts, home-school cooperation and other factors. We should treat scores correctly. As parents, we should also reflect on whether there are problems with our family education, parents and friends! As a parent, you can be rude, but you can't influence your children with bad behavior. The best teachers are parents. While learning, children should also respect children and everything related to culture. As parents, we must not play computer, watch TV or play mahjong. We should create a learning atmosphere for our children and set a good example for them. When a child encounters a failure, he must work with him to find the reason for the failure. Never put pressure on him If necessary, he can receive appreciation education to help him restore his confidence.
One should have goals in life and goals in study. He should also have a learning goal, make a learning plan for this semester, don't study blindly, make rational use of time and accomplish this small goal, then he will have a bigger goal, step by step, and finally reach the peak of success.
I think, if we want to cultivate a good child with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, we should start from childhood and start from scratch. Every child has a gift, a genius. Parents present here, as long as you firmly believe that your children will always be the best, I believe you will be able to cultivate more outstanding talents.
Thank you!
Tisso
First, good study habits.
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1, Homework: The first priority is to concentrate and speed up. Then there is quality. If the main reason is slow work and inattention, it will inevitably lead to a decline in quality. Du sometimes makes many mistakes in her homework, but she finishes her homework quickly and is very attentive when she writes it. It is often her parents who tell her that she can't hear.
2. Do something interesting: Du's greatest interest is reading. This interest was cultivated when she was very young. When she was very young, we told her stories and bought many books suitable for her age. Read with her. So she got into the habit of reading. Doing what she is interested in is to relax her, give her more free time, and finish what she wants to do, so that she can have no worries when studying.
3. Review: What lessons did you have today? What have you learned? What did the teacher say was interesting? Where did you learn this week? Ask questions to remind children of what they have learned, ask what to recite casually and how to remember it.
4. Preview: Watch what the child will learn the next day with the child, read the language in advance, mark the new words and tell her the math in advance. It doesn't matter if you don't learn. There is a teacher's class the next day. The purpose is to let children have a preparation and buffer for accepting new knowledge in advance. Preview will make the child's class the next day very relaxed and easier to accept.
Second, a good interest in learning
Learning while playing games, parents' active thinking drives children's active thinking. The competition includes doing math problems, reciting formulas, reciting ancient poems, reading texts, role-playing and answering questions. Review what you have learned in the game. For example, reciting the multiplication formula, I said I could recite it all at once, and the child said I didn't believe it, so I recited it again. Of course, the child said that you are coming of age faster than me. The mother of the child said: Baby, your father is old. With your clever mind, you can catch up with your father in less than a week. Your father was not as clever as you when he was a child. You have to believe in yourself and compare with your father in a week. A week later, I compared it with my children again. As a result, her reciting speed was 3 seconds worse than mine. If she is not nervous, she should be faster than me. China's role-playing is like two eggs.
Third, good hobbies.
In my opinion, enrolling children in classes does not increase their learning pressure and burden. Du used to learn piano, dance, read and draw. Apart from the piano, all other amateur classes are her favorite. We asked her for her opinion on signing up for these classes, and if she really likes it, we will sign up. Give her a chance to communicate with other children in her spare time and keep the diversity of her spare time. Read books when it snows and you are sick.
Fourth, the responsibility of parents.
1, the cultivation of children's study habits.
Timely reminder and companionship. When Du is doing her homework and studying, turn off the TV and computer and study with her. When the child is writing homework, we will quietly watch her write, or read books or look at the child's textbooks and recent studies. We will never send our children to another room to study by themselves. That will not only make children feel unfair, but also distract them. It is much better for husband and wife to study with their children together than to study alone, so they can concentrate on their studies and homework. At the same time, remind and correct children's mistakes in time. Correct or wrong words or formulas should be practiced several times at once, and one should be corrected if found.
2. Understand the child's curriculum progress, learning content, and communicate with the teacher in time.
Usually look at children's courses, understand their learning progress, grasp the difficulty of their learning content, and consolidate them through some games in time. The mistakes in children's exam content should be analyzed in time, which is the weak link of children and should be made up in time.
3. Encourage and praise in time.
Children's achievements must be affirmed. Don't fight if your exam results are poor, or your child will be afraid of the exam. Encouraging and praising can not only increase children's interest, but also increase their self-confidence. Once, we didn't criticize the children who didn't get more than 90 points in the first exam. It seems that after finishing the examination paper, she said, honey, look, it's all caused by your carelessness. Your brain is so smart and these questions are so simple. It's absolutely no problem to take the exam 100 seriously. Keep a diary. Wow, Du wrote so much in his diary today. It's really good. The teacher praised it and drew many good words. Then the next time she writes a diary, she will still want to be praised and will naturally write more seriously.
4. Good family atmosphere.
A good family atmosphere can develop children's intelligence and learning methods. Caring for children together and playing games with children together. Children are willing to play with older children. If parents are willing to play, then children will especially like to play with their parents. From children's crafts, painting, keeping diaries, puzzles, playing games, etc. Almost all of them are family mobilization. Mainly children. If the child doesn't do well, parents should give appropriate help to make the child feel happy after winning the game. They will play with their parents next time. Be a child's friend while playing.
5. Education before going to bed.
The effect of bedtime education is very good. It is impossible to say that children will never make their parents angry. When our family often admonishes children, the children talk back, and she doesn't listen at all. Parents are angry and children are angry, so this time it shouldn't have any impact. My things will sleep with the children. At this time, the child's mood is also the calmest. I will tell her some truth in a very soft voice, and analyze what she did right, why she did wrong, and why her parents asked her to do that. Everything her parents do together is to love her, and everything is for her own good. At this time, she can listen. Before going to bed, you can ask your child if he has quarreled with others in his study. Did someone bully her? What about the teacher? And so on, is to understand the children's life outside school, but also to educate children in time.
Finally, thank you very much for your careful education and help. I wish you all a happy New Year and all the best. Thank you! .