You can help children develop self-reliance: when children reach a certain age, you'd better not do everything for them. They must learn to dress themselves, tie their shoelaces and pack their bags for school. Of course, your help can make things faster, but you have to wait patiently for the children to solve the problem themselves. Because you can't always be there to help them, they should know that they have to rely on themselves.

2. You can give children a chance to make their own choices: let them make their own choices. You should not choose clothes, toys and hobbies for them, nor should you decide what they like and dislike. You can give them some advice and discuss their choices with them, but you shouldn't make decisions for them and act as if you know what they want better than them. They know their thoughts in their hearts, and if they always make decisions for them, they will become indecisive in adulthood.

Let your children go to school alone: there is no need to follow your children everywhere. As they get older, they can go to school alone or take the school bus. Of course, if you are always by your child's side, you can really make your child feel more calm, and you can also determine whether your child has reached his destination. However, in a more sober era, children already know all the safety rules and how to obey them in the street. In addition, they will feel more comfortable if they are accompanied by friends of the same age, and they can discuss homework and new toys that their peers will discuss.