A few days ago, the winter vacation was over. Chatting with a friend, I talked about children's education. Their only son is very arrogant and spoiled. The couple are also very keen on their children's education, but the children have many problems. Whether they study in normal classes or in extracurricular interest classes, they spend three days fishing and two days surfing the Internet. They begged their grandparents to go for a few days instead. They also try to bargain with their teachers as if they were studying for their parents.

The education of "waiting for flowers to bloom" is worth learning, and the book "Seeds of Safety" written by Wang Zao also conveys this idea to us in a simple way. The book says that Master gave each of the three disciples a thousand-year-old lotus seed, which made Ben's disciples very impatient. He buried the seeds in the snow no matter what flowering period or season, and waited day and night before the seeds germinated, so he fell off the working guy in disgust. This disciple named Jing began to consult ancient books, choose suitable utensils and temperatures, and sow with precious flower soil and potions. The seed germinated and should be happy, but he was swayed by considerations of gain and loss, covered the seedlings with gold, and finally the seedlings died of lack of oxygen. The most gratifying thing is to call Ann's apprentice. After he got the seeds, he took his time and worked in the temple as usual. When the next spring came, he planted seeds in the corner of the pond, and the seeds took root. In midsummer, the Millennium Lotus blooms. The story is over. Have you found the shadow of our parents in Ben and Jing? This seed is our child. Our parents expect them to win at the starting line, regardless of the law of growth, and arrange their children's work and rest schedules to the fullest. No one wants to listen to what their children are like inside, so that they regret it when there are various problems. We should really learn from the calm of waiting for spring, get rid of those impetuous things, be close to the child's innermost wishes, and have the "wisdom of waiting".

In this rapidly changing, quick success society, both adults and children are working hard for all kinds of "lotus seeds". I hope we can learn to adjust, slow down and enjoy waiting in the busy time. I believe we can also see our own bloom in a season of our own!