Do you know how to teach children character education? The cultivation of any character cannot be achieved in one day, and it takes time to precipitate. Therefore, if parents want to cultivate their children's certain character, they should guide them slowly. Below I will share with you some contents of children's character education, hoping to help you.

Children's personality education 1 education based on personality.

An impulsive and aggressive child.

Yelling at this type of children will only make them insist on getting what they want. For example, in the shopping mall, the child was crying and insisted on buying the toys he wanted, which made his mother couldn't help but raise her voice and yell at him: "No! You can't want what you see. " And the child stubbornly shouted back: "I just want it!"

Yelling at an irrational child is like lighting a fuse, which will only make him more angry and depressed. On the contrary, the dispute will get worse and worse, and eventually both sides will lose.

A nervous and sensitive child

This type of child easily overreacts to things. As long as parents speak in a heavier tone, they will be frightened by their parents' tone, and then they will have a hysterical reaction, shrink back or cry for it and refuse to listen to anything their parents say. Therefore, when communicating with such children, don't make a hullabaloo about, because they will not only not listen to what we say, but also fall into deeper pain, not knowing where they are wrong and how to deal with the current situation.

A shy, attached child

This type of children are very attached to their parents and stick to them all day. If parents communicate with them by yelling, it will only make them more shy, shrink back and stick to their parents more tightly. Communication between parents and children is not only completely impossible, but also may make the situation more difficult to clean up.

Nini, who has just entered a small kindergarten class, always pesters her mother in a depressed mood before leaving home for kindergarten every morning, which often leads her mother to be late for work to appease her mood. One day, my mother finally lost patience and shouted at Nini: "You can't do this anymore, you have to learn to grow up!" " "I didn't expect such a roar, but Nini stepped up her efforts to hold her mother's hand until she went to bed at night. Nini was still begging her mother not to leave her.

Parents should understand that children's nature is hard to change, and we must accept their temperament so as to find a way to communicate with them.

An obedient and quiet child.

This type of children usually seem to be the most cooperative and least worried about their parents, but when their parents yell at them, their reaction is the most unpredictable. They may have the reaction of the first three types of children. Once scolded by their parents, they may also make a hullabaloo about, become hysterical, or cry and shrink back. It can be seen that no matter how obedient and peaceful a child's temperament is, shouting communication will only drive his inner negative emotions.

2 Four small ways to correctly educate children's character.

Methods 1: Listen to children's opinions.

Many times, listening is a very effective means. For children who have their own opinions, listening to his opinions on matters related to him is a way to make parents and children feel relaxed. Parents need to master a principle, as long as it does not endanger safety, harm others or hinder respect, let the children choose for themselves. For example, if he wants to play football with his friends, he may not be required to go to the park with his parents.

Tip: In the process of getting along with stubborn children, parents should learn negotiation skills, give their children more respect and generosity, and achieve their goals gently from them. Never try to confront him head-on, otherwise it will definitely be a difficult result.

Method 2: Teach children to choose and learn to be modest.

Parents may wish to tell their children often subtly that really smart people often shrink back for progress. If both children want to play with that toy, they are both fighting for it. In the end, no one can play with it. Why don't we take turns playing? Not only can we play earlier, but we can also discuss more interesting ways to play.

Tip: For a stubborn and independent child, it is no longer necessary to emphasize the concept of letting him strive for the first place, but let him gradually learn humility before he is 4 years old.

Method 3: Parents should set an example.

In fact, most of children's stubborn personality comes from their parents' personality genes, so parents should not forget to cultivate themselves while "transforming" their children. If it is difficult to give yourself an objective judgment, then you can listen to the opinions of people around you and reflect on yourself often.

Tip: Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds, and don't be too opinionated, not only for children, but for everyone. Especially when eating, try to avoid quarreling about trifles in front of children.

Method 4: Don't indulge your child too much.

No matter how many strategies and tricks there are, sometimes it feels like a test of endurance to treat stubborn children. If all tolerance, understanding, respect or democracy fail, parents should exercise their rights. For example, if the child still refuses to sleep at bedtime, you can put him on the bed and tell him, "It's time to sleep, even if you can't sleep now, stay in bed."

Tip: When making rules for a stubborn baby, don't smooth the edges and corners of the child, don't accommodate the child too much, and don't sigh how stubborn he is in front of the child. This will make the child feel that he is a special child, or make him feel that he has the right to do what he wants. However, stubborn children's personality will improve with age, and their self-confidence and learning ability will also increase.

As parents, we should not only see the negative side of the child, but also observe the advantages of the child, start with the advantages, cultivate bit by bit and correct the shortcomings. Accordingly, as long as parents do a good job in proper education, children will become better!