The crisis of boys on campus is essentially the same as the problem of more and more feminization of young men, that is, the status of men in the family is too high now. When a boy was young, he was a little boy and a little princess at home. There was no injustice, and his parents also raised the child as a daughter, because according to the traditional concept of China, raising a poor son and a rich girl boy had to go through some beatings. Although it is not an era of lack of economic ability, the growth of boys is destined to be different from that of girls.
The growth of boys is bound to go through some ups and downs, and there must be a process of gradual independence. Girls can take good care of themselves at home. Even when I went to college, my parents sent me to school, and some things were handled before I went back. Because the school has guardians, there is no problem with safety, but boys can't. Boys should gradually exercise their independence from junior high school, at least to ensure that their parents are not at home. Whether he can take care of himself, let alone others, and whether he can wash clothes and cook well, at least not starve to death, is the most basic standard.
Men should be manly. If a boy is very independent from an early age and handles his own affairs by himself, then his final state must be perseverance, courage and responsibility, because he learned to bear these things by himself from an early age. But if he loves his family very much and doesn't care about anything, he will become irresponsible and feminine. Now the boy crisis means that more and more boys can't take responsibility, and most of the class cadres in the class are women.
Boys themselves will set up another family in the future, and in fact they will eventually become the head of the family. How can you take care of your wife and children if you can't even take care of yourself? These are all problems. The school has noticed this problem and can reflect the problem in time, so that parents and society can work together to solve it. This is a very good phenomenon. The problem is delayed until you get married slowly.