There is a photo album named Sexy Pupils circulating on Japanese websites, which has been labeled as "sexy" and "seduction", which has aroused the attention and heated discussion of people from all walks of life. The little girl in the picture only wears a pair of leggings, and some even take off leggings, which is quite bold. Therefore, it has aroused people's dissatisfaction and people's doubts about early childhood education. The education of girls in Japan is very mature, and TV programs are not graded, so children can learn too much about adults through TV programs, cartoons and so on. So we can see that Japanese girls often wear stockings and short skirts, imitate anime characters and so on.
It is precisely because of this incident that people began to attach importance to children's sex education, so we should correct our attitude towards "sex". We should educate our children from an early age and let them learn to understand in stages.
Children before the age of 5
At this time, children can't understand many things, so at this time, they should know themselves and distinguish between the sexes. When taking a bath, parents can let them observe their bodies, make them aware of their gender and learn to distinguish. Also tell children that boys or girls are the result of natural selection, so no matter what their gender is, there is nothing mysterious.
Children aged 5-7
At this time, children have a vague thirst for knowledge and will be confused and confused about the difference between boys and girls, so they may ask many questions. Parents should think carefully and answer carefully, don't involve too many details such as "sex" and "* *", and try to make the answer simple and clear so that children can't understand it.
Children aged 7~ 14
At this time, children's perception of sex is faster, so parents should systematically educate their children about sex. Many parents will educate their children with some natural phenomena, fairy tales or fables interspersed with sexual knowledge. For example, the flowering and fruiting of plants can be related to human sexuality, and children can also learn about sexual knowledge when watching programs such as Animal World. However, it is necessary to avoid educating human sexual behavior in detail, so as not to have a bad influence on children.
14~ 18 children
At this time, parents should pay attention to the education of sexual morality and help their children establish correct sexual concepts. At the same time, we should also care about the child's sexual confusion, such as nocturnal emission or menstruation, try to calm the child's heart and soothe his anxiety. At this time, the scale of education should be grasped by parents.