1, in fact, five-year-old children have their own ideas, and sometimes we may not understand them, so we will lose patience with them. For example, children suddenly don't want to go to kindergarten, their enthusiasm for learning things is not high, they watch cartoons, they always love bargaining and don't concentrate on their work. 2. How to educate children is actually a big topic. Nowadays, most families have only one child, so the education of children can not be ignored. In fact, children's destructive behavior is a natural motivation and a manifestation of creativity. 3, in fact, many times our parents' methods are a bit inappropriate, so the child's destructive ability is enhanced, often because we don't have the patience to listen to the child's explanation and don't really understand his inner thoughts. 4. When the child is about 5 years old, the personality shaping has actually been completed about 80%, and the rest should be supplemented and shaped in the future life experience. At this time, we should blame less and encourage more; More criticism will make children feel inferior. We should praise and inspire children's enthusiasm and pursuit of good things just right.