If parents still "talk about love changing color", it is to despise objective facts and deceive themselves. Everyone needs to treat children's curiosity and doubts with a calm mind.
2. Pay attention to the child's experience and don't ridicule the child. If children mainly show strong interest in love, parents should try not to show emotions. They will definitely not ridicule her: "Young, don't study hard, just think about some messy things." You don't even know what you are, so what do you want to do with love? "You're playing ridiculous children's tricks! This will make the child hurt and feel insulted, because in his understanding and experience, the feelings he experienced are real and valuable. If his most precious feelings are belittled by his parents, then for him, it is equivalent to being despised by himself.
Don't satirize him in front of relatives and friends. Children are the proudest and hate it when their parents humiliate him in public. If you embarrass him, he will find ways to embarrass you, such as deliberately opposing you or giving up on himself, and he will fight back at the expense of his wrong development.
3. Correctly guide children to treat love in life correctly. As adults, they naturally understand the diversity of love. In practice, many joys and sorrows always like this word. However, children's understanding of society is limited, and they are very easy to go to extremes. If they think that love is a paradise, they can solve all their troubles. If they think that love is the source of evil, they must stay away, which is not conducive to shaping correct values and values. Love is a very important specific content in a person's life, but it is not the only thing in life.
There are many precious foods in life, such as true feelings, self-esteem, personality traits and physical and mental health. Everyone respects love, but can't be a slave to it. "True love should be based on fairness, trust and self-esteem. It is precisely because of the deep love he refers to that women are silent from beginning to end, misunderstand the meaning of love and get lost in rhetoric. "