However, this educational concept may not be applicable in modern society. The following are some discussions about whether children should be instilled with the educational concept of "losing is a blessing":
1. Loss or frustration can be an opportunity to adjust your mentality.
In the face of failure or frustration, people can reflect on their own shortcomings and deficiencies, and can further improve by adjusting their mentality and making active efforts.
In this sense, the educational concept of "losing is a blessing" can help children learn to learn and grow from setbacks and feel their own growth and progress.
2. This educational concept should not be forcibly used when children encounter difficulties.
When children encounter difficulties, forcing them to think that "loss is a blessing" may make them feel depressed and powerless, and feel that their efforts become meaningless and valuable.
In this case, let children understand that failure and challenge are an inevitable part of life, but at the same time let them know that failure should not be regarded as the only way to grow up, but should be considered comprehensively.
3. Self-assessment and understanding should be emphasized.
In the face of setbacks, we need to make a real evaluation of our ability and performance, so as to find ways and strategies for improvement. If we emphasize that "loss is a blessing", it may make people ignore their initial abilities or situations, which may lead to ignoring the changes and growth in different environments.
Generally speaking, under different circumstances, the educational concept of "losing is a blessing" sometimes has practical significance, but sometimes it also has disadvantages. In order for children to correctly view the way to face challenges and failures, it is necessary to proceed from self-evaluation and actual situation, so as to experience and grow to the maximum extent.
The most important thing is to let children understand that success and failure are both part of growth, and different experiences will make us stronger and more mature.