1. You should pay more attention to why children don't like learning, whether the methods of teachers or parents are incorrect, or whether the problems encountered by children in learning affect him in time; Pay attention to what he likes to play;

2. Spend more time with him. In this process, find problems with him, solve problems and tell him that only by studying hard can we know more. Speak principles, rules, study and give him time to play;

3. Communicate with your child more patiently instead of preaching blindly, otherwise he will think of the negative emotions you brought him when he thought and studied something with a point of view; Respect him and understand him, instead of always trying to change him;

4. Guide children more, give him ways to learn, and make him feel that learning is very fulfilling;

Finally, I think your troubles probably come from all kinds of worries about his future study, but when a little boy was 8 years old, he was full of curiosity and curiosity about everything, and his personality and study were not enough to characterize him. The key lies in the guidance and education of parents and teachers.