First of all, we should fully understand the irreplaceable role of family education in children's growth. Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers. Therefore, parents have an unshirkable responsibility for their children's education.
However, in reality, many parents, whether necessary or not, are lucky enough to send their children to boarding schools.
All the problems of education are pushed to the school. There are also some parents who live under the same roof with their children, but on the grounds of busy work, they don't see their children almost every day, and they don't communicate and play with their children, let alone teach them.
Think and do something about education. When major choices such as the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination come, I just ask people everywhere, bumping into them and being at a loss.
Education is a "fine work", which needs to be imperceptible in the process of a long stream of water to achieve the established goals.
It is useless to ask questions on a whim, or to scold or scold. Education is also "full-time". We need to truly implement every educational goal, most afraid of being superficial.
Even if you already said it. Education is a "heart work" and needs to be done with "heart". So parents have irreplaceable advantages. From the moment the child is born, this person is closely connected with his parents. Parents and children
Children's consanguinity makes parents more loving when educating their children-this kind of love is inseparable and unrequited. At the same time, due to living together for a long time, the relationship between parents and children has disappeared
Solution, has reached the realm of transmitting information-a child's action, an expression, parents can know what he is thinking, what he wants to do. But in reality, many parents put their educational tasks,
Pushing them to schools and society prematurely leads to only blood relationship between them and their children, but no real "soul mate". There is also a teacher-student relationship that transcends family ties. However, for most teachers,
In other words, it may be more out of teachers' professional ethics and a kind of responsibility. Therefore, the love between parents and children has similarities and differences. Teacher's love, first of all, is awe and love for life, and it is very important to accompany life.
What is triggered by long-term longing and expectation is a universal fraternity. The interaction and integration of responsibility and love constitute teachers' affection for students. Therefore, as a parent, you should shoulder your responsibilities and spend more time with your children.
Together, a complete, warm, healthy and positive family atmosphere has an unexpected good effect on the cultivation of children's comprehensive quality, especially the improvement of emotional intelligence.
Secondly, family education and school education should be a cooperative and complementary relationship, each with its own emphasis, but they need to form a joint force. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen the contact between home and school and form a habit.
Family education and school education are two wings of education.
The tasks undertaken should be focused on each other. In my humble opinion, school education focuses on teaching children "knowledge and skills" in life and survival and experiencing "process harmony" through collective and systematic subject teaching and special education.
Methods ",cultivate scientific and healthy" emotional attitude values ". Family education is more about children's individual reality, and it is non-conceptual to cultivate children's good life and study habits through parents' words and deeds.
Formation, knowledge and skills, psychological pressure relief, hobbies and other aspects, make due efforts. Especially in the formation of behavior habits, parents' words and deeds will have a great impact.
If parents who are prone to domestic violence raise their children, most of them will also be prone to violence; In families with good learning atmosphere, the children trained also love learning. Some parents, with low quality, eat, drink and be merry every day.
Music doesn't like learning, so their high standards for children's learning are basically an extravagant hope. Some parents, lacking ideals and ambitions, ignore national laws and regulations and social morality, and often complain and play in front of their children.
Some cleverness or taking advantage of others. Children who grow up in this environment must be short-sighted and have no ambition, which will seriously become a factor of social instability.
In order to make family education and school education form a joint force, schools should often communicate and exchange with parents. Parents must overcome the passive waiting or embarrassing mentality, and also take the initiative to learn about their children's performance in school, master the requirements of the school for children in all aspects for a period of time, and try their best to cooperate. At the same time, we should actively communicate with teachers and other parents through various means (such as establishing QQ group).
Third, parents should learn some educational rules and educate their children scientifically and purposefully. Education is a science with laws to follow. To do a good job in family education, parents must play the role of "tutor", understand the laws of education and learn.
A little education and psychology. Now most of them are only-child families. Once education fails, they will regret it for life. Parents' schools, which are now being carried out in many schools, are efforts made in this regard. In fact, this may be due to
As new parents, there are often two extremes in family education-high standards and strict requirements in learning and low standards and inaction in morality. In terms of educational methods, it is the meticulous and meticulous materials.
God's indifference and indifference.
The establishment of educational goals needs a little wisdom. The principle of pedagogy tells us that only those goals that can be achieved by jumping are effective goals. Otherwise, it is either too ambitious or lack of motivation. Therefore, parents should have a rational analysis and determine reasonable and feasible goals when facing their children, so as to find a learning environment suitable for their growth and really help them. At the same time, strengthening the education and cultivation of children's moral quality is far more important than academic performance.
Educational methods need scientific rationality. Judging from the current education
In reality, it may be more necessary to care for children at the spiritual level. Parents should never forget the mistakes they made when they were young, and never replace their children's ideas with their adult understanding and impose their likes and dislikes on others.
For the children. Put yourself in the child's shoes and become spiritual friends with the child. Materially, I advocate contentment, warmth and avoiding unnecessary comparisons. In diet, it can ensure the growth and development of children.
Ben's nutritional needs are enough. It is necessary to change children's picky eaters and strive to enhance their ability to adapt to life.