Find out why when a child has problems, don't blame the child first, whether in study, discipline or being a man. Most of the cases belong to our improper guidance. Think about what our education methods and guidance methods are not suitable for children, find the guidance methods that children like to accept, let children run smoothly on the track we set, and approach our expected training goals as quickly as possible.
Do not take drastic measures. Some parents think that "jade can't be cut into a tool" and "children can't become talents easily without beating and cursing". Therefore, whenever a child makes a mistake, it is not a calm reason, but a slap in the face. Treating children rudely like this will not only make them realize their mistakes, but also leave a shadow in their hearts, and their personality will easily become extreme.
Children can see what parents say and do. Their imitation ability is very strong, and empty preaching is far less influential than actual action. Isn't there such a public service advertisement? The mother washed his grandmother's feet, and the younger son saw it and learned to wash his mother's feet. Similarly, "fish begins to stink at the head", if the parents behave badly, it is hard to say that the educated children are not copies of failure. It can be seen that the words and deeds of adults are really important.
Learning to dress yourself and organize school supplies and toys is a necessary skill for children. Conditional parents can try to teach their children to do housework. If their children have a lot of homework and have no extra time, they can learn to manage themselves (things are neat, time concepts are clear, and a simple timetable can be made). This can prevent children from developing the bad habit of laziness and procrastination.
The above are some methods for parents to educate their children for your reference.