1, parents should establish a correct concept and don't lead their children into misunderstanding.
When the baby grows up, he will ask all kinds of questions about the difference between male and female organs, and parents are naturally the first objects to be asked. Parents don't have to answer irrelevant questions, or hide them, or regard them as dirty and dirty, and severely scold them. This will make children mistake the reproductive organs for a symbol of filth and shame, and regard all activities related to them as ugly.
Some children even have rebellious mentality. They are determined to find out, or play with their sexual organs more frequently to satisfy their curiosity, or spy on their parents' sexual life, forming a sense of mystery and even committing crimes when they grow up. In short, this will seriously hinder the healthy development of children's psychology.
2. In daily life, children should be taught to gradually understand various parts of the body and their simple functions, including sexual organs.
Parents should be realistic and easy to understand, which can not only dispel children's doubts, gain their trust, but also communicate the feelings between parents and children.
For example, when you help your child take a bath, you can teach him to know his body, point out his reproductive organs and teach him the correct name, so that the child will look at the sexual organs as naturally as his hair.
Medical experts have said that children aged 3-6 often touch their sexual organs, are interested in other people's toilet movements, and even peek. This does not mean that children have sexual consciousness or consciousness, but out of mystery and curiosity.
3. Parents who share the same bed with their children should not caress or even have sex in front of their children, and should not give them the opportunity to witness and peep, because this will lead to paranoia, emotional tension and mental tension of their children and hinder their psychological development.
4. Pay attention to children's mental health education and health knowledge education.
Parents must be duty-bound to take on the responsibility of "preaching and dispelling doubts". Don't simply reprimand children for playing with their sexual organs, but tell them that it's a place to pee, and touching their sexual organs will make them sick.
Then help children choose good companions, good books, audio-visual tapes and other spiritual food, divert their attention, enhance their physical and mental health and help them grow up actively.