Beating and cursing will not only hurt children's self-confidence, but also seriously stifle their creativity and exploration spirit, make them lose the ability to think independently, disturb their inner order, and restrict the formation of their independent personality and self-awareness. These effects will even accompany the child's life. Children are born with a sense of shame and a self-correction mechanism. Children will feel guilty when they do something wrong, and they will be as depressed or even deny themselves as adults. Of course, the child will start the self-correction mechanism, and he will learn from it, understand some truths, and consciously improve his future behavior. What parents should do is not to strengthen their children's mistakes, but to experience their valuable experience from them. If a child makes so many mistakes and begins to deny himself, what parents should do is to give him understanding, tolerance and encouragement to help him regain his confidence.

It is very likely that when you grow up, you will become irritable and even violent. The latter is likely to be weak in character, lacking self-confidence and confidence, and lacking enthusiasm and creativity in doing things. Some children are likely to feel inferior all their lives, which will affect their lives and careers. There are many examples of children's life failure caused by educational failure, so parents should pay attention. Cold violence is the most terrible, because in the family's actions and eyes, only DOG and indifference to you, all words and deeds are reflected in the eyes so thoroughly that children dare not approach at all. For children, if they live in such a space, they can only be silent, inferior and unconfident.

Parents should communicate with their children more and solve their dissatisfaction through communication. This is the correct way of education. Parents are right to say that they are educating their children, and simply and rudely say that they are hurting their children. For children who are not sensible, rebellious or even numb, it means little. However, "looking at life at the age of three", parents' education is not good when children are young, and it is very brain-burning when they grow up. Therefore, blind connivance is not a good education, and a proper blow is still possible, but the king of education is to make the truth clear and let him know it.