Don't talk about' sex' before marriage or have a disharmonious sex life after marriage?
Everyone has different intensity of sexual desire. It is difficult for people with strong sexual desire to choose people with low sexual desire. How to know each other's situation? The only way is for both sides to really tell each other themselves. The intensity of sexual desire is divided into two levels: the first level is the intensity of sexual physiology.
American sexologist Kinsey, after a large number of investigations, found that the earlier puberty (based on the first menstrual nocturnal emission) begins, the stronger people's lifelong sexual ability, which is characterized by high frequency and continuity of sexual life. This finding applies to 85% people. Men's sexual ability is the strongest between 18-25 years old, and will gradually and irreversibly decline in the future, dropping by about half every 10 year. Women's sexual ability is the strongest between the ages of 35 and 45, and then it begins to decline, but the decline rate is slower than that of men of the same age.
A person's sexual psychological intensity is also the embodiment of sexual desire intensity. Men and women who have accepted new cultures and concepts since childhood, are willing and good at finding fun and romance in sexual life, have strong ability to coordinate sexual life with their spouses, and are rich in sexual psychology. People who live in an ignorant and closed environment often have sexual psychological prejudice and obstacles.
Men with low academic qualifications ignore the communication of sexual feelings. If a woman with a positive sexual attitude and a high sense of psychological romance marries him, she will feel that he is too rude and inhuman, and men will feel that she is too' lewd' and too' busy'. On the contrary, if a conservative woman marries a man with a positive sexual attitude, she will think that this man is' destroying' this man, and she will think that this woman is a puppet and her sex life is boring.
The older a person is, the lower his sexual ability is. Therefore, from a sexual point of view, it is generally believed that young and middle-aged people with strong sexual desire and high sexual requirements are not suitable for marrying the elderly. Generally speaking, the age difference should not be greater than 15 years old.
Older people remarry mainly to satisfy their sexual desire for contact and touch, so the size of sexual intercourse ability is irrelevant. However, if individual men have strong performance, they must choose women with similar abilities, preferably under 60 years old, because the vaginal secretion function of women over 60 years old is already very poor.
Two overweight people are not suitable for marriage, because overweight people may lead to joint degeneration, and there will be difficulties and other inconveniences in choosing the right sexual posture.
What do you need to know about premarital sex education?
Why should sex education be conducted at school instead of at home? From the perspective of the White Hutong, this issue was also raised in the suggestion, and the White Hutong was recorded. The original explanation:' Why don't fathers teach their children? Thank you for your blasphemy. Once again, it shows the changes of yin and yang couples. Father and son can't teach. "This means that the father can't teach his son, so he is slow and not serious.
Take sex education in the Eastern Han Dynasty as a compulsory course in schools for aristocratic children. It can be seen that people's sexual concept at that time was quite open-minded and attached great importance to research. Learn about the gender you need to know before marriage:
The most important thing to prevent male infertility is premarital sex education. China's marriage law clearly stipulates:' lineal blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations, including syphilis, gonorrhea, gonorrhea and other sexually transmitted diseases, leprosy and mental illness, have physical defects but cannot have sex, and cannot get married without treatment'. Marriage law is a law to ensure the normal combination of young men and women, establish a happy family and ensure the quality of childbirth.
Pre-marital health examination is of great significance for ensuring married life and childbearing of men and women. Premarital examination includes general examination and reproductive examination.
Inbreeding is closely related to the occurrence and continuation of genetic diseases and should be avoided. Actively prevent all kinds of acute and chronic infectious diseases, such as mumps, which may be complicated with orchitis, leading to testicular atrophy and affecting spermatogenesis. Once you find unexplained testicular swelling, hardening, unevenness and pain, you should check it in time. Workers who stand for a long time, such as teachers, may have varicocele, which affects testicular metabolism and leads to the decline of sperm quantity and quality. Therefore, occupations prone to varicocele should appropriately increase exercise and reduce standing posture, which is also a measure to prevent male infertility.
In addition, people who often contact radioactive substances, work in high temperature environment and contact drugs should pay attention to protection, because testicles are very sensitive to radioactivity, high temperature and drugs.
Sexual life is also closely related to fertility. If impotence, premature ejaculation and abnormal ejaculation occur in sexual life, don't blame each other, but treat them correctly with a scientific attitude. Most couples can be cured under the guidance of doctors.