Angry parents can't raise happy children. Parents' life is full of work and daily chores. Many times, parents' emotions will be affected by various aspects, and the accumulated emotions will be suppressed for a long time, but no reason should be an excuse for innocent children to vent their emotions.
Parents who are angry with their children will cause seven injuries to their children, and the power of emotions is powerful, especially anger. If parents pay for all their bad emotions, it will be a family's greatest sorrow.
Emotional violence of parents is a lifelong nightmare for children. Parents who can't control their bad emotions are sometimes more terrible than wild animals.
Parents should be the first umbrella for children to resist the world, but out-of-control parents have become a knife hanging over their children's heads and are in danger of falling down at any time.
In daily life, parents feel that it is very common for children to yell at their children because of their unsatisfactory work, and that the pressure should be vented.
However, parents' emotional faces sometimes go deep into children's young hearts like a poisonous thorn, which becomes the spiritual shadow of their life.
Home should be synonymous with warmth and security, but it may be the greatest harm to children who are emotionally torn and violent because of their parents' emotions.
The worse the parents' bad temper, the worse the parent-child relationship may be. Children who have been hurt by their parents' bad temper will have a deep psychological shadow when they grow up.
Even some children will be withdrawn when they grow up, unwilling to communicate with others or even lonely and autistic. Studies have shown that parents' long-term grumpy personality, blaming and scolding their children, will forcibly interrupt the contact with their children emotionally, and children will have different degrees of emotional obstacles and even inferiority.
Sadly, children will capture emotions from their parents' attitudes. Parents love to lose their temper, and children will naturally follow suit. Parents tend to be violent, and children will also solve problems with their fists.
There is a concept in psychology called "chain disease in the family". The confusion or distortion of a single member of any family will trigger a corresponding chain reaction of other family members. If parents are in emotional confusion and anxiety, children will not feel love, so they will have strong emotional anxiety.
Love is not only giving, but also restraining, restraining your anger and giving your child a harmonious and warm environment. This is the deepest love for your child.
Otherwise, the bad parent-child relationship will hurt the child's heart, harden the child's heart gradually, and even create a deep generation gap with parents.
Good parents know how to nourish their children with love. Behind excellent children are parents with stable emotions. A child with mature mind and sound personality can't do without parents' rational and peaceful educational attitude.
Parents' good temper can support children's hearts and give them a strong sense of security and the strength to overcome all difficulties.
Education sometimes does not require parents to be excellent, but peace of mind and emotional stability are the best starting points for children.
Only parents with stable emotions can cultivate children with high emotional intelligence. It also gives children the courage to walk alone in the world.
Parents' bad mood is sometimes like an executioner, which will hurt their children to pieces. The best family education is the education of love. A loving environment and calm parents are the most precious feng shui in the family, and they are also a good blessing for children's life.
With the passage of time, parents' love will condense into a warm background in their children's lives, and they will walk in the light all their lives.
Parents actually want to be the gentle and amiable parents in their children's minds, but life is often full of troubles and pressures. Need to cope with busy work, but also need parents to be busy with complicated housework.
If there are naughty children at home at this time, no one can persist, and they will definitely yell at the children. Sometimes it's not that parents want to lose their temper with their children, but that they can't control their emotions. Life is stressful, and naughty children can't hold their breath for a while, which is understandable. Sometimes the pressure of parents has nowhere to talk, and the burden of life can only be borne by one person.
Sometimes the so-called deliberately disturbing children is actually just to attract the attention of parents. Losing temper with children may make them stupid, otherwise they will become dull and destroy their spirituality for a long time.
When people are angry, there will be a kind of inexplicable anger. When parents lose their temper with their children, they will lead this anger to their children, and the children's own physical and mental instability will often lead to emotional fluctuations, thus affecting their character and temperament.
As the saying goes, anger hurts the liver, and often losing your temper not only affects your health, but even hurts your child's body and mind.
Look at the people around you who are often angry. Their health and work must often have various problems. Anger and scolding are often a waste of breath. When a person is faced with great danger and feels afraid, the brain will start the escape mechanism, and then people will become nervous and ready to escape from the disaster.
When parents yell at their children when they lose their temper, they often make them more nervous, thus triggering the escape mechanism in their minds. At this time, children's attention is mostly focused on how to avoid parents' blame.
Accusing anger is never love, but the killer of children's healthy personality. The motivation to get angry with children is rarely because of love, because parents can't control their children's emotions.