Even if he has made achievements, it is difficult for him to feel happy, and even he will be crushed by setbacks.
What is really good for children is to let them live an optimistic and positive life and always remain confident in any environment.
Smart parents know what to do:
1. Pay attention to children's feelings and emotions.
Suhomlinski once said: "We should protect children's hearts as carefully as dew on the lotus leaf."
Parents should pay more attention to their children's emotional changes and help them maintain a good attitude.
When children are happy with their progress, parents should affirm their progress; When children are depressed because of failure, parents should encourage their children and increase their confidence.
2, can not satirize children, say more positive words.
Psychologist Rosenthal once did an experiment:
In an ordinary middle school, he randomly selected several students, and then he told the teacher that these students were smart and had high IQ. After a while, a miracle happened, and these students became the best in the class.
This experiment proves that passing on positive expectations to children will make him progress faster.
Therefore, parents should say more positive words to encourage their children and guide them to work hard in a better direction.
3. Don't compare your child with others, but affirm your child's brilliance.
Einstein once said:
Everyone is a genius, but if you use the ability to climb trees to judge how talented a fish is, then it will believe that it is stupid all its life.
Every child has his own advantages, so there is no need to compare with other children. As long as he makes progress every day, even a little, parents should praise him.
Finding a child's bright spot and cultivating his advantages are the key to his success.
Try to accept your child's shortcomings, start with a small thing, give him some affirmation and praise, and he will be better than you think.