School etiquette
(A) image etiquette
1, wear the prescribed school uniform as required, fasten or zip up, and tidy up the collar.
2. Wear a red scarf as required: First, fold the red scarf in half and put it in the collar. The triangular tip of the red scarf is aligned with the spine, tied with a bow tie and turned down the collar. When the weather is hot in summer, you can wear the team emblem on your left chest.
Wash your face and brush your teeth every morning and evening to keep your face clean.
4, no long nails, no nail polish. Keep your nails free of dirt and wash your hands before and after meals.
5, often organize the instrument. Wash your hair and dress at the right time, have a proper hairstyle, and don't dye your hair or perm it. Boys don't cover their foreheads, their side hairs don't cover their ears, and they can't get up behind them; Girls' front hair does not cover their eyes, and their side hair does not cover their eyes.
6. Sit with posture, stand with posture, walk with posture, smile, behave in a civilized manner and be natural and graceful.
(B) classroom etiquette
7. When the bell rings, you should hurry back to the classroom and sit down, and do three things well before class (1, prepare well before class; 2. Clean up the desktop; 3. Tidy up your clothes. ) wait for the teacher. When the bell rang, the teacher came into the classroom and the student on duty shouted? Stand up? The whole class stood at attention and said hello to the teacher. The teacher responded, and the student on duty shouted? Sit down? Then sit down. When sitting up, the tables and chairs should be quiet.
8. In class, if you are late for class under special circumstances, you should stand at the back door of the classroom and return to your seat after the teacher signals you to enter.
9, pay attention to reading and writing posture, so that: one punch from the table, one foot from the book, one inch from the pen tip.
10, in class, all kinds of articles should be handled with care. Listen carefully, think positively, raise your hand and speak. Mind your own business, don't gossip, and don't indulge in boring thinking.
1 1. When others are talking, listen carefully, don't interrupt others casually, and don't make fun of others. Encourage the speaker through sincere eyes and expressions.
12. In class group cooperation (such as special discussion, etc. ), we should have a sense of cooperation and overall situation, listen to the arrangement of the team leader, cooperate in division of labor, actively communicate with partners, and take into account the partners in the group while completing our own tasks to win the success of the team together.
13. In class, if you encounter unexpected things such as students' physical discomfort, don't watch or show disgust. You should take the initiative to care about your classmates, listen to the teacher's arrangement, and help the teacher handle it properly.
14, class is over. Before you leave the classroom, you should get ready for the next class (textbooks and pencil boxes are placed in the upper left corner of the desk). Let the teacher go first when you leave the classroom.
(3) Activity etiquette
15, during recess activities, don't talk loudly, don't chase and fight, and actively participate in various cultural and sports activities that are beneficial to physical and mental health. Obey the rules of the game and love your game partner.
16, group outing activities should be subject to management. Students should be humble to each other and take the initiative to care for and care for their weak classmates. When working in groups, we should obey everyone's common wishes, observe the time and don't act alone.
17. When participating in competition activities, observe the rules of the competition, respect competitors, don't intentionally hurt each other, and be magnanimous in offending or neglecting each other. If you encounter controversial issues, you should raise them to relevant personnel in accordance with the procedures and communicate calmly.
18, watch the game, be a civilized cheerleader, don't shh. Don't be carried away by your own victory, and don't satirize losers. Really cheer for every player on the field.
19, actively participate in the school? Four quarters? (reading festival, English sports meeting, art festival, science and technology festival), and actively participate in community activities organized by the school. While showing yourself, pay attention to modesty and courtesy and respect the strengths of others.
20. Actively participate in comprehensive practice, community service and social investigation, abide by traffic rules and social ethics, and be polite and generous when speaking and asking questions.
2 1, when entering and leaving classrooms, function rooms, meeting places, etc., you should walk softly, walk in an orderly way according to the designated route, without crowding or grabbing roads.
22, all kinds of activities, should pay attention to protect the environment, training? Green behavior? Take good care of flowers and trees, save water and electricity, pick up paper at will, and place garbage at designated locations.
(4) Assembly etiquette
23. When holding a flag-raising ceremony or assembly, gather in line quickly, quietly and neatly, enter the playground in advance, and sit (stand) at the designated position waiting for the ceremony or assembly to begin.
24. Listen to the speaker and applaud politely after the speech. After the activity, see the leaders or guests leave first, then follow the instructions and leave in an orderly manner, without preemption or noise.
25. Don't whisper to each other during the conference, don't walk around or leave the meeting place without authorization, don't eat snacks at the meeting place, don't throw scraps of paper, and keep the meeting place clean and hygienic.
26. During the award ceremony, the winners should tidy up their musical instruments, enter the venue steadily, accept the award with a smile on their hands, and then hold a ceremony of thanks and returning to the team. Return to the team (seat) according to the designated route after receiving the prize.
(5) Communication etiquette
27. When entering the school gate, meet the teacher with a smile, stand still and greet him with a team salute or bow. The teacher returned the gift and walked away. Say hello to each other when you see your classmates.
28. Take the initiative to talk to teachers and classmates after school? Goodbye? Don't stay on or around the campus for no reason.
29. Before entering the teacher's office, you should knock on the door quietly, and you can enter only after the teacher agrees. When talking with the teacher, don't look around, speak softly and try not to affect others. When the teacher is working or talking to others, don't disturb him at will, and then explain his purpose when the teacher is busy.
Don't browse the things in the teacher's office casually, and don't open the teacher's computer without permission. If the teacher you are looking for is not here, but it is really urgent, you can write a short message to the teacher. If you make an appointment with the teacher in advance, you must arrive at the appointed place on time.
3 1. When going up and down the stairs, walk lightly and keep to the right. When you meet a teacher or guest, take the initiative to say hello and avoid to the right, so that the teacher and guest can go first.
32. Sincerely accept the teacher's instruction. When you disagree with your teachers and classmates, communicate calmly, don't be angry, don't make noise, and don't criticize others behind their backs.
33. Respect classmates, help each other and love each other, take the initiative to help students in trouble, abide by the rules of the game, be polite, and be generous to classmates' mistakes or offenses.
34. Don't give your classmates nicknames or flower names, don't be sarcastic, and don't say things that embarrass each other. If you hurt others, you should apologize sincerely in time.
35. To borrow something from others, you must first obtain the consent of others; Take special care of other people's things, keep your promises and return them on time.
Whenever you get help from others, you should express your gratitude in time.
(6) Dining etiquette
37. Wash your hands before meals. Dine at the designated place. Line up, don't cut in line, don't make any noise.
Family etiquette
1. Respect your elders and honor your parents. Respect parents' opinions and teaching, often exchange ideas and study with them, actively seek the education and help of elders and parents, and listen to their teaching and guidance.
2. Care about your parents. Take on housework as much as possible, such as helping parents clean up housework, cleaning, serving parents actively, expressing filial piety to parents and reducing their burden as much as possible.
3. Have a correct attitude towards parents. Don't contradict your parents, don't lose your temper, be tolerant of your parents' incorrect words and deeds, and explain and explain them in time.
4. When you leave home or go home to greet your parents, you are not allowed to go home late, travel far away, or spend the night outside without your parents' permission. Elders should take the initiative to greet and hand over items when they leave home or go home.
Knock on the door before entering the parents' room and enter after getting permission. Don't turn over your parents' personal belongings at will.
6. Learn to take good care of your personal life, keep your supplies clean and tidy, and don't put them anywhere.
7. Live frugally, don't waste, don't show off, don't be vain and compare with others, and don't make excessive demands on parents beyond family economic conditions.
8. Be polite, modest and courteous. When guests visit, they should be treated with courtesy, stand up to greet them, greet them warmly, bring tea with a smile, and deliver it to the door when they leave, and say? Goodbye! ? Or? Welcome to visit again? .
Table manners
1, at home:
(1) Please be seated first.
(2) Wait for the elders to take the food first, and then take the food yourself.
(3) When eating or drinking soup, swallow with a small mouth, shut up and chew, and try not to make a sound.
(4) others add food to themselves, to say? Thank you? .
(5) take the initiative to add dishes to the elders.
(6) What should I say after dinner? Everybody eat slowly, okay? .
2. At school:
(1) Enter the restaurant in an orderly manner under the guidance of the teacher.
(2) Sit in the designated seat, with your feet naturally close together, your legs naturally flat, your sitting posture naturally and your back straight.
(3) Quiet and civilized dining.
(4) Eat all the rice, vegetables and soup; Not partial eclipse, not picky eaters.
(5) Bowls and dishes should be handled with care and placed neatly.
Appellation etiquette
1. Parents and elders should not be called by their first names, let alone by impolite words, but should be addressed accurately, such as father, grandmother, teacher and uncle.
2. Don't give others nicknames or flower names.
Greeting etiquette
Greetings to parents and elders should be based on different times, occasions and festivals.
1, say good morning to mom and dad after getting up early.
2. wish mom and dad good night before going to bed.
3. Parents come home from work: Mom and Dad are back.
4. Birthday: I wish my elders a happy birthday and good health.
5. Happy New Year: Happy New Year to Mom and Dad.
6. When mom and dad went out, they said, I wish mom and dad a safe journey and a smooth work.
7. Mom and Dad went out and said, "Mom and Dad are back. It's hard work.
8. When I say goodbye to my family: Don't worry, I will take good care of myself. Leave home for a long time, write or call to greet your family.
Hospitality etiquette
1, guests should be prepared to tidy up their rooms in advance. Warm reception, help parents arrange seats, hand over tea, and then you can leave. Do you want to tell the guests when your parents see you off? Goodbye? . If your parents are not at home, you should receive guests as a host.
When your classmates and friends visit, they should be warmly welcomed. When you visit for the first time, you should introduce your parents one by one, and then give the best seats to the guests. You can entertain the guests with tea, candy, toys and books.
3. Parents' friends bring their children to play with them, or tell them stories, listen to music and watch TV.
4. When eating, when classmates and friends visit, take the initiative to invite them to have dinner together. If the guest claims to have eaten, arrange a friend to sit down first and find some books, newspapers or magazines for him to read before eating.
5, the reception teacher should be as warm and solemn as the reception of the elders.
6. Fujian will deliver it to your door. Welcome guests to come again next time.
Guest etiquette
1. When visiting relatives and friends, be neat and bring some small gifts as much as possible to show respect for the host.
2. At the home of relatives and friends, don't talk loudly, but be civilized.
Don't use the things in the owner's house without the owner's permission. Even close relatives and friends should say hello first and ask the owner's permission before using it.
4. If you eat in the host's house, you should pay attention to the dining etiquette, you can't sit down first, and you can't move the food first;
5. Say thank you when you say goodbye, such as? Are you happy today? 、? Welcome to my home? .
dress etiquette
1, wear the prescribed school uniform as required, and don't wear fancy clothes.
2, dress neatly, simple and generous, do not tie the coat on the waist, do not wear clothes, do not button.
3. Walking on campus, entering the classroom without wearing vest, slippers and underpants.
Don't take off your clothes and shoes in class.
5. Don't wear designer shoes, high heels or platform shoes. It is best to wear sports shoes or flat shoes.
6. Do not wear necklaces, earrings (pins), rings, bracelets, bracelets and other accessories.
7, no makeup, no eyebrows, no eyebrows, no tattoos, no nails, no nail polish.
8. Trim your hair as required, and don't dye it, perm it or leave long hair.
Walking etiquette
1, when walking, hold your head high, look forward, swing your shoulders and arms naturally, with moderate steps, and avoid splayed feet, swaying and twisting.
3, meet acquaintances to say hello, exchange greetings, can not turn a blind eye; If you need to talk, you should lean on the side of the road or talk in the corner. You shouldn't stand in the middle of the road or in crowded places.
4. Pedestrians avoid each other, take the initiative to make way for the elderly, and take the initiative to make way for the disabled and those in need.
5. Ask someone the way, first say hello in polite language, such as? Excuse me, can I bother you? 、? Excuse me. Wait, young people should choose the right name when asking for directions, such as? Grandpa? 、? Aunt? 、? Uncle? Wait, then ask the way; After listening to the answer, you must say: Thank you! ? If you are asked the way by a stranger, you should answer carefully. If you don't know, you should say: I'm sorry, I don't know. Ask someone else ?
Ride etiquette
1, consciously queue up after school, pay attention to keep the waiting area clean and get off in an orderly manner.
2, don't eat in the school bus, civilized ride, consciously keep the car clean and tidy.
Don't grab your seat on the school bus, and give your seat to the younger students and those who have difficulties. Offer your seat to the old, the young, the sick, the disabled, the pregnant and the teachers when you take the bus or the boat.
4, don't do dangerous actions in the car, pay attention to the safety inside the car.
social etiquette
1, ask others for help and let me know? Would you like to? Or? May I trouble you? After getting help from others, say? Thank you? 2. Inadvertently affecting others' rest or work, say? Excuse me. 、? Please forgive me? ; When someone accidentally affects you and sincerely apologizes to you, you should be tolerant? It doesn't matter? .
When talking with people, be sincere and speak kindly. When listening to other people's speeches or speeches, we should face each other squarely, and we should not casually interrupt them.
4. In public, don't talk loudly, spit, litter, pick your ears, pick your nose, shave your teeth, cut your nails, etc.
5. Obey the traffic laws, don't ride a bike illegally, and cross the road and take the crosswalk.
6. Observe public order, queue up to buy tickets, and be polite to the staff.
7. Take care of public facilities, cultural relics, crops, flowers and trees, and protect beneficial animals and ecological environment.
8. When expressing condolences to the patient, say:? Have a good rest. ? Bring condolences or flowers.
Shopping etiquette
(1) When shopping in the supermarket, you should store your bags according to the regulations.
(2) When shopping, if you are not satisfied with the purchased goods, you should take the initiative to put them back in the original shelf area, and you can't put them at will. Valuables should be handled with care.
(3) The goods in the supermarket can't be tasted and tried at will.
(4) consciously queue up when paying the bill.
(5) Thank the sales staff for their warm service.
(6) All goods have to be paid, don't they? Steal? , take advantage of petty gain.
Provided by the stadium
(1) Watch in a civilized way. Go in and out in an orderly manner, applaud the highlights of the game warmly, don't boo, don't throw things into the venue, and take the initiative to clean up your used things when you leave, and don't litter.
(2) Civilization participation. Abide by the rules of the game, do not cheat and cheat honor. Respect your competitors, don't intentionally hurt each other, and refrain from offending each other. If you think there is something wrong with the referee, you should raise it with the relevant personnel according to the procedure.
(3) civilized judgment. Be fair and just.
e etiquette
(1) Learn online knowledge seriously and don't browse bad websites and information.
(2) Have honest and friendly communication with netizens, and don't insult and deceive others.
(3) Enhance self-protection awareness, and don't date netizens at will.
(4) Control the online time and don't indulge in virtual time and space.
(5) Do not produce or spread destructive programs such as computer viruses.
Holiday travel etiquette
(1) Walk in a civilized way. We should consciously abide by traffic rules and obey traffic signals. Take the sidewalk, don't cross the traffic barrier, don't grab the motorway, don't walk side by side in groups of three or five, and don't chase and fight in crowded sections.
(2) Civilized riding. Actively cooperate with flight attendants to maintain public order. You should board, board or board the ship in an orderly, slow and quiet manner, help the old and take care of the young, do not grab seats and make no noise.
(3) Civilized sightseeing. In tourist attractions, we should pay attention to social morality, do not litter, behave in a civilized manner, use polite expressions, take good care of public property, pay special attention to protecting cultural relics and historical sites, and do not scribble.
(4) Civilized accommodation.
The Story of Pupils' Civilized Etiquette (1)
Once upon a time, King Tuguhun had 20 sons. His 20 sons are all very capable, so it is difficult to tell them apart. However, they are self-reliant and highly skilled, and don't care about others. They think that only they are the most talented. Usually, 20 sons often fight in secret, taunt each other when they meet, and always speak ill of each other behind their backs.
A can was very worried when he saw that his sons were incompatible with each other. He knows that it is easy for the enemy to take advantage of this incompatible situation and divide them one by one, and then national security will be imminent. Achan often takes advantage of various opportunities and occasions to earnestly teach his sons not to attack and fight each other, but to unite and be friendly. However, everything the sons said to their father went in one ear and out the other. On the surface, they pretended to follow the instructions, but in fact they didn't take it to heart, or they still went their own way.
As the jackal grows old, he knows that his rule will not last long. But what will sons do after their own death? No one can teach them and mediate the contradictions between them. Isn't that country falling apart? How can we make them know how to unite? The jackal is getting more and more worried.
One day, Aman, who was bedridden for a long time, foresaw the coming of death and finally had an idea. He called his sons to the bedside and told them: Each of you put an arrow on the ground. ? The sons agreed somehow. The jackal also called his younger brother Muliyan and said, Just take an arrow and break it. ? Mu Liyan picked up an arrow next to him, and with a little effort, it broke. The jackal said again:? Now you pick up all the remaining 19 arrows, tie them together and try to break them. ? Mu Liyan grabbed the bundle of arrows, sucked the milk with all his strength, gritted his teeth, bent down, and the veins stood out on his neck, sweating profusely, but never broke the bundle of arrows.
The jackal slowly turned to his sons and said earnestly. As you all know, arrows break easily, but when put together, they keep breaking. So are your brothers. If you confront each other and act alone, it is easy to fail. Only when 20 people unite and Qi Xin works together will you have great strength, overcome everything and safeguard national security. This is the power of unity! ?
The sons finally understood their father's good intentions and remembered their past behavior. They all said with tears of regret. Father, we understand, you can rest assured! ?
When the jackal saw that his sons really understood, he nodded with confidence, closed his eyes and died safely.
The broken arrow tells us that unity is strength, and only by uniting can we produce great strength and wisdom to overcome all difficulties.
The Story of Pupils' Civilized Etiquette (2)
Sincerity and Courtesy —— Yan Zhaowang's Search for Talents
Since Meng Changjun was removed, Qi Min and Chu Weiwang destroyed the Song State and became more arrogant. He was bent on annexing the nations and came to heaven himself. Gal, governors of all countries are not satisfied with him; Yan, especially the northern part of Qi, was bullied by Qi and wanted revenge.
Yan is a big country. Later spread to the prince (sound ku? In my hands, I listened to the bad guys' ideas, learned the legendary method of Yao and Shun abdicating, and gave the throne to Xiangguozi. General Yan and Prince Ping attacked the son, and the state of Yan was in chaos. In the name of pacifying the civil strife in Yan State, Qi State entered Yan State, and Yan State almost perished. Later, the soldiers and civilians of Yan made the prince the monarch, rose up and drove the army of Qi out.
Prince Ping acceded to the throne, that is. He made up his mind to make Yan strong. He made up his mind to find talents to govern the country, but he didn't find the right person. He was reminded that Guo Kun, an old minister, was quite knowledgeable, so it was better to ask him.
Yan Zhaowang personally visited Guo Kun and said to Guo Kun. During the civil strife in our country, Qi invaded us. I will never forget this shame. But now Yan's national strength is weak, and it is not yet possible to avenge it. If a wise man comes to avenge me, I would rather wait on him. Can you recommend such a person?
Guo Kun touched his beard and said on reflection that I can't recommend ready-made talents. Allow me to tell a story first. ? Then, he told a story:
In ancient times, there was a monarch who liked swift horses. He sent people everywhere to look for it, but he couldn't find it for three years. A courtier found a precious swift horse somewhere far away and told the monarch that he could buy it back by giving him 1200 gold. The monarch was very happy and sent his courtiers to buy it with 1200 gold. Unexpectedly, when the courtiers arrived, Maxima had died of illness. The courtiers thought it was not good to go back empty-handed, so they took out half the gold they brought and bought the horse bones back.
The courtiers presented the horse bones to the monarch, who was furious and said, I want you to buy a live horse. Who told you to spend money on useless horse bones The courtier said unhurriedly. People have heard that you are willing to spend money on dead horses, but they are afraid that no one will send live horses.
You presided over the skepticism and no longer blamed the courtiers. As soon as the news spread, everyone thought that the monarch really loved swift horses. Within a year, several swift horses were sent from all directions.
Guo Kun finished the story and said: Your Majesty must seek talents. It is better to treat me as a horse bone. ?
Yan Zhaowang was greatly encouraged. After he came back, he immediately sent someone to build a very exquisite house for Guo Kun to live in and worshipped Guo Kun as his teacher. When the world's talents heard that they were sincerely recruiting talents, they ran to Yan to inquire. One of the most famous is Zhao. Yan Zhaowang worshipped Le Yi as Yaqing and asked him to rectify national politics and train the army. Yan is really getting stronger every day.
At this time, Yan Zhaowang saw that King Qi Min was arrogant and unpopular, so he said to Le Yi. Now the king of Qi is helpless, and it is time for us to take revenge. I want to mobilize the people of the whole country to fight against Qi. what do you think?
Le Yi said? Qi has a vast territory and a large population. I'm afraid we can't fight alone. If the king wants to attack Qi, he must unite with other countries. ?
Yan Zhaowang sent Zhao to contact King Zhao Huiwen, sent someone to contact Han and Wei, and asked Zhao to contact Qin. These countries do not like the hegemony of Qi, but are willing to send troops with Yan.
In 284 BC, he became a general, commanding the armies of five countries and defeating Qi.
When King Qi Min heard that the five-nation allied forces were calling, he also panicked. He gathered all the military forces in the country to resist the allied forces and fought a battle west of Jishui. Because Le Yi was good at commanding, the morale of the five horses was high, and the Qi army was defeated. King Ji Min fled back to Linzi.
Soldiers from Zhao, Han, Qin and Wei won the battle and occupied several cities in Qi, so they didn't want to fight any more. Only Le Yi refused to give up. He personally led the army of the Yan State, and marched into the country, laying a solid foundation for the capital of Qi State. King Qi Min had to escape and was finally killed in Cheng Ju.
He thought that he had made great contributions and personally went to the water's edge to enjoy the merits, and was named King Chang.