1. Disciples Rules is the teaching of sage Confucius. The first is to honor parents and love brothers and sisters, and the second is to be cautious and keep promises.
2, love the public, be close to the people and be kind. If you have extra energy after learning your own ideology and morality well, learn more and ask more questions.
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3. If parents call themselves, they should reply in time and don't deliberately delay; When parents ask them to do something, they should start at once, and don't deliberately delay or refuse to be lazy.
When parents teach themselves, they should be respectful and listen to their parents carefully. When parents criticize and blame themselves, no matter whether they think their parents' criticism is right or wrong, they should be respectful to their parents' criticism and don't contradict them face to face.
5. The weather is cold in winter. Parents should warm their beds before going to bed. It's very hot in summer, so you should help your parents cool their beds in advance. After getting up in the morning, you should visit your parents first and say hello to them. Don't go to bed until your parents go to bed at night.
6. Tell your parents where you are going before going out, so that parents can't find themselves and worry; When you get home, you must first face your parents and report your safety; Although parents will be very happy when their children are promising, their greatest expectation for their children is not how promising you are, but that you will be safe and there will be no disasters in your life.
Therefore, the place where you live should be as fixed as possible, and you should not move frequently, and you should not change your job for a living frequently.
7. Although things are small, don't make decisions and actions without authorization; Making mistakes without authorization and worrying parents is not the duty of being a child.
8. If you have something, even if it is small, don't hide it from your parents. There is no airtight wall in the world. If you hide something, even if you are cautious, it will inevitably be discovered by your parents one day, and then your parents will be sad.
9. Parents should try their best to do what they like; Parents should be careful not to do things they hate.
10, your body is hurt, which will inevitably cause parents' anxiety. So you should cherish your body as much as possible and don't let yourself be hurt unnecessarily. If a person's reputation and virtue are damaged, it will inevitably bring shame to his parents. Therefore, you should be careful what you say and do, don't let your reputation and virtue be damaged for no reason, and don't do immoral, self-polluted and self-deprecating things.
1 1. It is not difficult to honor and obey our parents when they are kind to us. Parents treat us badly, criticize and blame us, or hate us, hate us, beat and scold us, and even kill us with knives and guns. Filial piety to parents is commendable.
12. If you think your parents are at fault, you should try your best to persuade them to change their practices, so as not to make bigger mistakes and put them in an unfair position; However, pay attention to the method. Persuade with kindness and sincerity, and speak softly. ?
13. If your parents don't listen when you try to persuade them, don't rush them. You should wait until your parents are happy. Don't contradict your parents, it will only make them angry and won't achieve the effect of persuasion. If parents don't listen to advice and cry, they will temporarily obey their parents; If you persuade your parents to get angry and hit yourself, don't resent it, let alone complain to your face.
14, when parents are sick, it is safe to taste cold and hot medicines for parents first; You should try to serve day and night, and don't leave your parents' bed for a while. ?
15, after his parents died, he kept filial piety for three years and often remembered and felt the kindness of his parents; Live, drink and eat meat.
16, parents' funeral should be handled in accordance with etiquette, not extravagance and waste; Paying homage to parents should be sincere; Respect your dead parents as before.
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17, the elder brother should love the younger brother, and the younger brother should respect the elder brother; Brothers and sisters can live in harmony, parents are naturally happy, and filial piety is also among them.
18, light wealth and heavy righteousness, resentment can not be born; Verbally tolerant, anger will naturally disappear.
19, whether eating or drinking, or sitting and walking; Old people should be given priority, and young people should be behind.
20. When elders call others, they should immediately call and inform them; If that person is not here, or can't find that person, you should inform your elders in time.
2 1, address respected elders, and should not call them by their first names; In front of respected elders, you should be modest and polite. Seeing the respected elders can help them, but don't deliberately show off your talents and deliberately show that you are better than the respected elders.
22. When you meet your elders on the road, you should greet them respectfully and salute them. If the elders don't talk, stand back respectfully and wait for the elders to leave.
23. If you meet your elders by horse or car, you should dismount or get off to say hello. Wait until the old man leaves a hundred paces before continuing.
24. When the elder is standing, the younger generation should not sit. Specifically, the younger generation should not sit down before the elders sit down; When everyone is sitting, the elders will stand up and the younger generation will stand up; When everyone is sitting, another elder comes in, and the younger generation should immediately stand up and show respect. After the elders sit down, the younger generation can't sit down until the elders signal themselves to sit down.
25. When talking to elders or talking to others in front of elders, keep your voice down, not loud; But the voice is too low, whispering, and it is not appropriate for the elders to hear clearly.
26. In front of the elders, you should move forward quickly; When returning, it's only polite to slow down; When the elders ask questions, they should stand up and answer, watch and listen, and don't look around;
27. Treat parents' grandparents, such as adoptive father, uncle, uncle, grandfather, grandfather, great-grandfather, great-grandfather, etc. And be as filial and respectful as your own biological father; Treat brothers, such as cousins, cousins and brothers, with the same love and respect as your own brothers. ?
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28. Get up early in the morning and don't go to bed too early at night; Because life is easy to get old, we should cherish time.
29, get up in the morning, be sure to wash your face and dress, brush your teeth and rinse your mouth; You should wash your hands when you come back from urinating.
30. Dress neatly and button your clothes; Wear flat shoes for socks and tie your shoelaces.
3 1. When putting clothes, the position should be fixed; Don't throw clothes about, lest you get the house dirty.
32. Dressing focuses on neatness, not how gorgeous; On the one hand, we should consider our own status, on the other hand, we should do what we can according to the strength of our family. ?
33, treat diet, don't be picky, too much; Eat a whole diet, just eat well. Don't pursue food excessively. You only need to eat eight full points to avoid overeating and endangering your health.
34. You can't drink until you are a teenager. Getting drunk is the ugliest thing.
35. Walk calmly and steadily and stand straight; When visiting other people's homes, bow, be sincere and respect.
36, don't step on the threshold, don't stand askew, don't lean against the wall; Don't stretch your legs or shake your legs while sitting. ?
37. When you open the curtain and switch the door in and out of the room, you should move slowly and don't make any noise on purpose. When turning a corner, make a big circle, and don't turn straight at the corner or right angle, so that you won't be injured by bumping into the corners of the goods, and you won't bump into each other because someone suddenly appears at the corner.
38. When holding an empty appliance, be as straight as holding an appliance full of things. Don't swing from side to side, or you will appear frivolous; Entering an empty room should be like entering someone else's room, and you can't just do it.
39. When you do something, don't panic even if it is urgent, because it is easy to make mistakes when you are busy; Don't be afraid of difficulties and don't make a move.
40, fighting, gambling, pornography and other bad places, do not approach; Don't be curious about strange things.
4 1. Before you start, you should ask, "Is anyone there?" You should raise your voice to let people know that someone is coming before entering the living room.
42. The people in the room asked, "Who is it?" , response name; If the answer is "it's me", people can't tell who it is.
43. If you want to use other people's things, you should explicitly ask for permission. If you take it without asking the owner's wishes or asking the owner's consent, it is theft.
44. Loaned items should be returned in time; If there is an urgent need in the future, it is not difficult to borrow it again.
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45, speak, integrity first; Deception and nonsense should not be used;
46. It is better to talk less than to talk more; Tell the truth, don't talk nonsense;
47. Don't say treacherous words and swear words; Snobbish must be given up.
48. Don't express your opinions easily before you know the truth; Don't believe rumors that don't know the truth, and don't spread them again. ?
49. Don't easily agree to unreasonable demands and things you can't do; If you agree easily, you will be in a dilemma.
50. Speak clearly and slowly; Don't speak too fast and ambiguously.
5 1, don't talk about other people's strengths to their face and their weaknesses behind their backs; It's none of your business. Don't make trouble.
52. When you see the good deeds of others, you should immediately learn to keep up with them; Even if the ability is far from each other, we should work hard and catch up gradually.
53, see other people's shortcomings or bad behavior, to reflect on yourself; Change it if you have it, and be alert if you don't. ?
Only moral knowledge can be inferior to others in skills. We should motivate ourselves, hone ourselves and improve ourselves.
If you are inferior to others in eating and drinking, don't compare with others.
56. If you get angry when you hear criticism from others, you will be glad when you hear praise from others, bad friends will come to you and good friends will leave you.
57. Fear of being praised by others; When you hear others criticize you, accept it gladly, and your mentor will gradually approach you;
58. If you don't do anything wrong on purpose, it's called fault; If you knowingly commit a crime, it is a crime.
59. When mistakes are corrected, they disappear; If you cover up your mistakes, you will add them to yours.
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60. All human beings must love each other; Because we share a sky and live on the earth.
6 1, people with noble virtues have a noble reputation; What people really respect is virtue, not those who seem to have high power and status.
62. Those who have both ability and political integrity have high natural prestige; What people really believe is their own ability and political integrity, not what big officials, big shots and big financial businessmen talk about.
63. You have the ability, don't be selfish and help others; Others have the ability, don't be jealous, and learn to appreciate learning.
64. Don't flatter the rich and don't be arrogant in front of the poor; Don't like the new and hate the old.
65. Others are busy and don't bother; Don't bother others with small talk when they are in a bad mood.
66. Remember not to expose the shortcomings of others; Remember not to publicize other people's privacy.
67. Praising the good deeds of others is doing good deeds; When others hear your praise, they will encourage you to do more good deeds.
68. To publicize the evil deeds of others is to do evil; Criticizing others too much will bring disaster to yourself.
69. Persuade good and abstain from evil, have both ability and political integrity; You are wrong, you can't convince each other, and both of them owe morality.
70. The acquisition or giving of property is clear. You should take it if you take it. Give it, give it. Pay more, get less.
7 1. Ask yourself if you want to do what you ask others to do. If you don't want to do something, stop asking at once and don't force others to do it.
72. If you want to repay the kindness of others, you must forget your resentment towards others. You should report your grievances in the short term and repay them in the long term.
73. Be kind to your handmaid and servant, and set an example; Although good conduct is important, kindness and generosity are more valuable;
74. Forcing others to obey, the other party will inevitably be dissatisfied with it; Convince people by reasoning, and others will be convinced.
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75. The same person, good and evil, good and evil, spiritual level, good and bad; There are many people who are worldly wise, but few who are benevolent and fraternity.
76. If a benevolent person appears, everyone will naturally fear him; He is outspoken and won't flatter others.
77. It is infinitely good to be close to people and learn from them with kindness. He will make our virtues increase day by day and our mistakes decrease day by day;
78. If you refuse to be close to the benevolent gentleman, there will be endless harm; Evil villains will use this opportunity to influence us and lead to the failure of the whole life.
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79. If you can't practice, you will be filial, your brother will be sincere and trustworthy, you will love everyone, but you will be kind. Even if you have knowledge, you will only develop your flashy habits and become an unrealistic person.
80. If you just practice and refuse to learn, it is easy to do things according to your own prejudices and not see the truth.
8 1, there are three ways to read: eyes, mouth and heart, all of which are indispensable.
82. Be single-minded in your studies. You can't fail to understand a subject and want to learn other subjects.
83. The study plan should have a grace period and efforts should be increased; When you work hard, you will learn.
If you don't understand this question, take notes and ask your tutor for the correct answer.
85. The room is clean, the walls are clean, the desk is clean, and the pen and ink are neat.
86. If the ink is worn out and the mind is wrong, it will not be neat and the mood will be bad.
87. Take the book from the shelf and put it back after reading it.
Despite the urgency, you should put your books away before you leave. If there is any defect, you should repair it.
89, bad books and periodicals, abandon it, so as not to blind wisdom and bad mood.
90. Don't give up when you encounter setbacks. You can reach the realm of sages by practicing their teachings. ?
Extended data:
Disciples' Rules takes the chapter "Disciples are filial when they enter the Analects of Confucius and filial when they leave it". They are sincere and trustworthy, love the masses, be kind to others, and spare no effort to study literature. This book is divided into five parts, which are selected from The Analects of Confucius, Mencius, The Book of Rites, The Book of Filial Piety and Zhu's Quotations.
The full text consists of 360 sentences, 1080 words, covering daily life, clothing, behavior, morality, ways of dealing with the world and so on. , and detailed in moral education. Disciples Rules is a classic of enlightenment. The so-called "disciple" is not a general meaning, but a disciple of a sage, while "rule" is a combination of "husband" and "seeing", which means one's knowledge.
Disciple Rules is to learn from the classics of sages, be a disciple of sages and become a courageous person. Disciple rule is its introductory reading. Originally named Xun Mengwen, this book is based on The Analects of Confucius: "Disciples are filial, caring, loving and kind-hearted, and have spare capacity for learning."
The book is divided into five parts, which specifically lists the rules and regulations that disciples should abide by when they are at home, going out, treating others and studying. Later, Jia Cunren adapted it and renamed it Disciples Rules. This book is a necessary reading for enlightening and cultivating honesty, educating children to stay away from evil, taking the right path and cultivating loyal family style.
Disciples' Rules is a code of life for primary school students compiled by Li Yuxiu, an educator in Qing Dynasty, according to Confucius' theory. The form is three-character rhyme, and the core idea is Confucian filial piety and benevolence, which has important cultural and educational value. Qian Wenzhong, a professor at Fudan University: "Disciple Rules" talks about social behavior norms, so that children can learn how to get along with others by being filial to their parents, brothers, friends and brothers.
Its purpose is to cultivate good behavior habits, sincere attitude and caring personality. Professor Jingwei Liu of Northeast Forestry University: The language style of Disciple Rules is concise without losing its meaning, and the language form is easy to understand without losing its profound connotation.
This method of verbal persuasion in Disciple Rules not only conforms to children's cognitive characteristics and laws, but also helps children acquire moral theoretical knowledge, understand the truth of life and have a preliminary understanding of morality by reciting, thus realizing the enlightenment of moral knowledge.
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