She thinks that the difficulty and cost of raising a child far exceed her original imagination, and that it is really not easy to raise a child now.
What makes her feel the most uncomfortable is that she has been blushing with her mother-in-law countless times on the issue of educating her children. She said that her mother-in-law has always loved children, and some things can be educated face to face, but her mother-in-law thinks that children are still young and can be educated when they grow up. What can those children remember?
In this way, the contradiction between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to deepen, and even deteriorated to the point where neither of them wanted to talk.
So, because of all these unexpected experiences, I don't know what will happen in the future, but at least for now, she says she has no idea of having a second child.
When I saw many comments below, I thought at that time, maybe this mother spoke the voices of many mothers now, which resonated with everyone.
In fact, in the matter of raising and educating children, we must have both, but the reality is often not allowed. If I have to choose one, I think education is more important, because educating a child well is equivalent to invisibly cultivating the child's future life. It is precisely because of this that parents now pay more and more attention to their children's education.
It is difficult to raise a good child, but it is quick to waste it. Li Meijin, a professor at the People's Public Security University of China, once said that the quickest way to abolish a child is to let him grow up in the way he likes. He doesn't study if he doesn't want to, and he doesn't go to school if he doesn't want to. As a result, the strong talk about persistence and the weak talk about liking.
Therefore, in educating children, we still have to start with dolls. We can't wait for the child to grow up, as the old woman said. We are educating him. It may be too late to educate the child when he really grows up.
Nowadays, the social competitiveness is very strong, and it is even more difficult for children to live in greenhouses since childhood. I don't know the wind and rain outside. I want to educate him from an early age, teach him independence and teach him to stand on his own feet. Only in this way can I bear the pressure of the future and face life more optimistically.