After all, children have their own ideas. With the growth of grade, children want to be independent more and more. Although their understanding of many things is not comprehensive, parents should try to let their children make their own decisions at this time. This is really good for their children.

After all, parents can't always be with their children. Parents will leave them one day, and children must learn to grow up. Therefore, parents should not always teach their children what to do, but should make clear all the pros and cons and let them make their own choices, so that children will learn a lot in such an environment, and even without their parents around, they can make their own decisions in the future.

Moreover, parents over-educate their children, often from their own point of view, telling their children their own ideas, but also insisting that children do what they think, which is unfair to children. Maybe it is ok for parents to do this when the child is young and has no discernment, but the child is growing up and needs constant exercise. Only in this way can they gradually become independent.

As the saying goes, parents don't stick to the south wall and don't look back. Although their original intention is good for their children, they may not understand their parents' pains. Instead, parents might as well let them do it, as long as they can let their children do what they want within a reasonable range. Even if they encounter difficulties and setbacks in this process, even if they fail in the end, they are not without gains, and they will certainly learn a lot in this process.

Parents can protect their children, but when appropriate, they should let them go out to have a rest. After all, the umbrella of parents can't always protect children, and children can only really grow up by constantly groping and wandering.