How to manage the education of children who have entered adolescence First of all, the tone of adolescent children should be polite. At this stage, children become more and more independent and often become very sensitive. They want to be respected and recognized by others, and they want to be treated as adults. Therefore, at this time, parents must not force their children in a commanding tone as before, but try to talk to them in a euphemistic tone. Parents should try to be equal friends with their children, listen to their confessions patiently, share their happiness and troubles in their lives, and keep abreast of their psychological trends.
Second, children are more tolerant, no longer in charge of everything, and take care of children. When children enter adolescence, they have their own "little secrets" and need their own independent private space. At this time, if parents are too strict and meticulous with their children, it is easy to conflict with them, which will make both sides suffer and have differences. The correct approach is the principle of "taking the big and taking the small". Parents help their children to watch the door, and the children decide the small things themselves, which makes parents and children feel more relaxed and the contradictions between parents and children will be much less.
Third, give children more love. Although adolescent children long for independence, they always face various tests. In fact, they need the care of their parents more than when they were children. This kind of nursing is mainly psychological nursing. Parents should always pay attention to their children's psychological state, solve problems and pressures for their children at any time, and let them know that although adolescence is a bit painful, parents are their strongest backing.
Fourth, adolescent children are in the process of sudden psychological and physical changes, so communication with them should be based on peace or friendship, not through reprimand or education.
Parents should understand the emotional fluctuation, excitement and anger of adolescent children due to sudden physical changes. Parents are advised to communicate with their children in a state of mutual understanding, mutual learning and mutual help as much as possible.
6. When children reach puberty, they will think that I am a big boy and will do something by myself. What should parents gently let them do when disciplining them? Moreover, children will have their own little secrets in adolescence, so parents should not be too strict, don't touch their children's secrets, and be like friends.