Congratulations, it is said that many successful people are stubborn donkeys. Look for the right thing to do to the end, or you won't die if you don't succeed. This kind of child has a strong self-esteem and needs to communicate on the basis of respect, not coercion and indoctrination. Your soft method is actually to persuade him, or make him obey, rather than respect his ideas. First of all, respect his ideas, support his ideas, encourage him to try, remind him of matters needing attention, and respect him equally. Don't be afraid of children doing something wrong. As long as it's not a matter of moral principle, let him try. Frustration education is far more useful than adult preaching. Encouraging him to make mistakes is called frustration education. I will never forget my feelings. Better than you say it ten thousand times. Doing something wrong now is better than doing something wrong later. Support him, encourage him, and experience frustration education. I need to change my mind. Otherwise, it will destroy the child. Maybe he will get ahead in the future.