The methods of educating children who are tired of learning are as follows:
1, thank you for your praise
Everyone likes to be praised, and so do children. And our parents often only pay attention to their children's shortcomings and deficiencies, constantly demanding their children to reach a higher and better level, and rarely praise their children sincerely. Thanks praise method, the key is to remind and assist children to complete the task and cultivate the quality of facing difficulties.
When children encounter problems in completing their homework, parents should not directly explain the problem-solving methods to their children, but directly give the answers. We should remember that we don't do this for children. We don't ignore them or blame them for being so simple, but remind and help them to do so. You can give children some clues to inspire them to think for themselves.
When children are inspired by their parents' tips, parents must attribute them to their children. Wow, you solved all the difficulties. Praise children, let them find the feeling that I like challenging difficult problems, and cultivate the quality of facing difficulties.
2, small goal completion method
Those tall goals are generally useless, and if they are not completed, they will make children feel frustrated.
For example, if your child fails this exam, you must tell your child to get a score of 90 or more in the next exam, which is very rare for your child. When a child feels that no matter how hard he tries, he will lose the motivation to work hard, and his frustration will destroy the child's internal drive.
Set a small goal for children that can be achieved through hard work in a short time, and give them a celebration or reward in time when they complete this set small goal.
For example, make an agreement with your child. If you fail this time, try to reach 60 points next time. Or make an agreement with your child to remember a few words and do a few math problems every day.
3. The Law of Glory
I once met a mother who built a wall of honor for her family. Since kindergarten, she has posted all the awards won by her children on the honor wall. Every holiday, relatives and friends will praise her children when they come to see the awards. At this time, her mother was not modest.
Praise the child in front of everyone and sigh that it is a good thing to have this child. So that after relatives and friends left, the child told his mother not to praise me in front of so many people in the future. I'm not well.