First of all, lz should understand that this is definitely not inappropriate content, it is the only way in life and the necessity in the development of adolescence. These are all things that must be experienced, but the content is too fast to be accepted psychologically. At this time, we should read more books, books on mental health and books on adolescent education. Take part in more outdoor activities. I'll post some for you below:
Adolescence is the transition period from children to adults. Usually, people clearly distinguish between adolescence and childhood, and the dividing line is sexual maturity. For men, the sign of sexual maturity is nocturnal emission (usually ejaculation during night sleep); Women have menarche, that is, the first menstruation. Physiological development with sexual maturity as the core
1. Adolescent education is mainly sex education. We should talk about the basic knowledge of life gestation and birth, the physiological laws of youth development, the changes of youth physical appearance, the physiological and psychological phenomena of sexual desire, sexual attraction, sexual impulse and sexual catharsis, and the knowledge of sexual safety, health and physical and mental protection. As a kind of life education, adolescent education should teach sexual values, sexual social behavior norms and moral responsibilities, legal boundaries of sex and prevention of sexual violence.
Sexual values in adolescent education
Everyone is born with sexual potential and sex is a natural and healthy part of life.
2. Sex has physical, psychological, ethical, social and spiritual levels, and sex expressed by combining these levels completely is healthy. Family should be the first school for children to learn sexual knowledge, and parents should be the first and main teachers of children's sex education; Parents have the obligation to help their children accept the mainstream values of society and regard values as an important part of their healthy growth. Teenagers should be protected by family and school, and have the right to obtain scientific and accurate information to prevent pregnancy and diseases, so as to make "informed choices"; Teenagers should also know where to get sexual health counseling and where to seek help in an emergency.
To prevent minors from having sex, middle school students before 18 years old should "lead an honest and clean life". At this point, adolescent sex educators should speak to students confidently and openly! 18 years old can't participate in the referendum because of immaturity, and middle school students can't have sex because they are mentally, socially and economically immature and can't bear the consequences of sex. "Busy in spring" is a life law that every adolescent boy and girl should know. When it comes to "leading an honest and clean life", we can't deny the sexual desire and impulse of boys and girls, which is an instinctive physiological phenomenon and is not dominated by the brain and will. But how to deal with desires and impulses is to answer and act through the brain and willpower. The contact between male and female organs is not the only way to solve sexual desire and impulse, but the specific way for life partners to fall in love. Therefore, teenagers must be told that there are other ways to transform stress besides sexual organ contact, such as reading more good books, doing more good deeds and actively participating in healthy cultural and sports activities. It should also be noted that sexual desire, as an instinctive phenomenon, is different from appetite and lethargy. The former can be postponed, transferred or dissolved. A person who doesn't eat or sleep for 30 days will get sick or die, but an adult who doesn't satisfy his sexual desire for 30 days will neither get sick nor die. This explanation is to dispel the doubts of teenagers.
James Dobson, a famous American psychologist, said: Teenagers should not only learn sexual knowledge, but also cultivate sexual morality and let them know that it is necessary to restrain sexual desire. It is true that the sexual impulse in adolescence needs the correct guidance of sexual morality, and the coordinated development of physiology, psychology and spirit in adolescence needs the balanced matching of sexual morality and sexual knowledge. Only sex education supported by sexual morality and based on sexual knowledge can cultivate children's rational cognition of sex, construct healthy sexual values and make life more pleasant, harmonious and civilized.
To establish a correct concept of sex! You can communicate with your parents. When watching educational films, don't blindly believe some so-called health education books on the Internet, but they are not at all.
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