Reading Liu Yong's works is really a satisfying experience. It makes me feel that although the power of a person's language and words can't be as deadly as weapons, the charm of words is still great. My post-reading feeling is like this.
In this book, Liu Yong expounds the hot issues of family education through examples in the way of educating children. From this book, I can get a glimpse of a father's different ways of handling his children. Actually, adopting a son is different from adopting a daughter.
We have been children for many years. When dealing with the relationship with family members, we will encounter such problems more or less, and the contradiction with parents will intensify. Perhaps in adolescence, or when we were naughty as children, parent-child relationship has always been a very headache for parents.
Should I? Is it right? Actually, it's been a long time. Sometimes there is really no right or wrong conclusion. But at least I know that most parents absolutely love their children!
In the book, the author uses a vivid example to tell a great truth in his father's tone. The successful people in the world are not necessarily the smartest, nor the most educated, but the people who can face problems and persevere the most.
To be sure, children may not like listening to sermons. I think the parent-child problem involved in "Where is Dad?" broadcast last year is the same when combined. Dad puts himself in the child's shoes every day to accept the idea of listening to others. Think of it this way. It is the root of praise.
Everyone can tell the truth, but can you say it in the heart of the listener? It depends on the ability of mom and dad. There is also a good topic: about idolization.
Liu Yong's father encouraged his daughter to like someone, but she was different from other parents. What he pays attention to is a kind of positive energy guidance, guiding a champion spirit, rather than simply winning the championship. I learned the indomitable spirit from the young champion Michelle Kwan.
About love, about life and death. When we are young, we may not know what life and death are, and we don't know whether we can see the old people at home tomorrow. How can we make children understand this truth? This is a problem. There is also facing pain, facing setbacks and facing different environments.
What is more inspiring should be the paragraph about learning. When the daughter is disturbed by relatives and friends because of practicing piano, the father's education will be corrected in time. And I can use my own personal experience to convince people, in a sense, tell my daughter that her father was good when she was a child, and then tell her daughter to cheer and overcome difficulties.
Indeed, when you encounter difficulties, you may think that the whole world is the reason why misfortune happened to me. Or you may think that you have encountered the most difficult problem in the world and so on. In fact, you just didn't go out yourself. There are too many misfortunes in the world, and sometimes we can't choose whether to face them. We can only choose what kind of attitude to face them, either optimistic, strong, negative or slack.
More new educational ideas still need to be experienced by everyone. This is the value of a good book, which is worth recommending!
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