First, there are not many days in the future, but love one more day.
For the dying elderly, the days of life are not far away, and every day of life should be cherished. Therefore, when we have the opportunity to care for our younger generation, we should spare no effort. At this time, they treat every day as the last day of their lives, so they don't want to beat and scold their children, let alone have any estrangement with them. They just want to bring the best things to their children and make them happy every day.
Second, the life of the older generation is more intelligent and tolerant.
On the road of growth, everyone needs to go through multiple tempering to grow up bit by bit. The reason why the old people at home care so much about the younger generation is that they have experienced many ups and downs in life and have enough ability to cope with life. For the younger generation, they will respond with a more tolerant attitude, instead of being strict with their children like their biological parents. On the contrary, in their view, children's mischievous nature should not be suppressed, but they should be given more respect and allowed to grow freely. So it is easier for the older generation to get close to their children.
Third, the old man has become an old child and knows the child's heart better.
The life of the elderly is no longer busy with work all day, but tends to choose a simple life. At this time, their view of the world is closer to that of children, because their requirements for life are becoming simpler and simpler. They sometimes pay more attention to all kinds of eating and drinking, or pay more attention to spiritual satisfaction. At this time, they can listen to their children's voices and have empathy. In terms of psychological education, the older generation will do better than their parents. This is the origin of the principle of intergenerational separation.